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Default something on my mind - 03-07-2014, 06:26 PM

I've had this running around my head the pasts few days and feel like I need to tell "someone" but I honestly feel to scared to in person. Sad I know, but here goes.

I've started to notice more and more that whenever someone tries to take my hat off me, I clam up and get really pissed off. Regardless of who does it; be it joke or not. I've been trying to figure out what it could be and its been racking my mind. The conclusion I've come up with is that the hat acts as my safety net. I feel safer from facing my anxiety. Im still unsure of this myself but just felt like i needed to put this somewhere.

Thanks for reading, I guess.
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Default 03-07-2014, 06:44 PM

This sounds like me when I was 14.

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Default 03-07-2014, 06:45 PM

Yeah i get You, your hat is the way You feel safe and when You get it taken away it feels terrible and feel unsafe :/ p.s Hi Aaron

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Default 03-07-2014, 06:46 PM

i think that when people take off my hat or hood unexpectedly it ruins my hair and that makes me angry
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Default 03-07-2014, 06:51 PM

Originally Posted by Mircast View Post
i think that when people take off my hat or hood unexpectedly it ruins my hair and that makes me angry
Ill agree to that one.

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Default 03-07-2014, 06:57 PM

Everyone has something that always relieves them of something they don't like, in this case your hat and anxiety.

Nothing to be ashamed or scared to tell anyone about, it's normal.

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Default 03-07-2014, 07:07 PM

I think you're looking way too deeply into this. It most likely bothers you simply because it's yours. It belongs to you and it annoys you that others think they are free to take what is yours. I used to be the same and it certainly wasn't because of some deep seated issue I had, it was because I didn't want them to think it was ok to take what wasn't theirs.

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Default 03-07-2014, 07:43 PM

I get that way when people take off my pants.

On a serious note, it's probably what Ross said. It's most likely that you have a sense of ownership to the hat and you'd rather not have people mess with your things. I can actually relate with this, people used to do this to me back when I played baseball, and for whatever reason, assuming it was the same as stated above, I'd get really pissed.

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Default 03-07-2014, 08:18 PM

You probably feel like you're getting mocked when someone does that to you, it's the same for me. Just keep cool and tell em to fuck off.
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Default 03-07-2014, 09:50 PM

I concur with Welshboy on how you may be over-thinking why you're so hostile when people grab your hat.
If anything else would be taken in such a manor I believe you'd feel the same way, I know I would.

As well as what Mirak said, nobody enjoys being mocked. Chin up, Aaron

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