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Default Girl trouble. - 07-17-2012, 05:10 PM

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Well. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about four years. I really thought she was the love of my life, we even had that "romantic" type of love. We would sneak out to see each other, and write "secret" notes at school when we where young. Well. Last month was my birthday, so I bought me and her a ticket to the amusement park. We got there, it went all fine, we rode rides, played games and just enjoyed life. Maybe a couple of hours in my girl started acting real shady, scared almost so I finally questioned her but she just acted timid and told me don't worry about it. Anyways, she told me she wanted to go get some drinks while I rode a ride, and I kept telling her that I would come with her but she just kept blowing me off and told me ride the ride. Well, simple bullshit ride I get off and go to the drink stand and she's just completely missing. I file a report to the park management because she came with me, and I thought she had got kidnapped or some shit and that I was her only ride back. On top of that she was my love at the time so I was freaking out. I stayed until the park was closed, and on my way out I saw her kissing some guy I've never seen before. So, I witnessed my girl kiss someone else on my birthday after I payed for her to come. I already have broken up with her but I'm so fucked up in the head because of this. Any advice?
There is nothing that is mentally nor physically wrong with me. Here, I found a quote that explains alot of this in a weird way.



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Default 07-17-2012, 05:16 PM

You are used to being with her and that will change eventually. Don't dwell on it and move on. Assuming you're young, you have plenty of life ahead of you.
  
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Default 07-17-2012, 05:19 PM

Could you please change your text color for next time, just that it really hurts to read that.

OT: She screwed up, I think you should get over her, the worst thing you can do is act like a total tool. Be manly, find a new girl. Buut let her speak too, she may have this period of time when she didn't know what she was doing and will be sorry for the rest of her life, give it time.
  
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Default 07-17-2012, 05:21 PM

man, i cant even imagine how you feel. i cant exactly give advice but i can say that when you work yourself through this, youll come out to be alot stronger of a person, and thats something to look forward to.
  
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Default 07-17-2012, 05:22 PM

Oh, my, god. O.O
That's very sad, I'm so sorry to hear. Hope you're already feeling better. :/
I'm not so good at giving advice and Google definitely didn't help.
But you should try keeping yourself busy so as to keep your mind off the whole situation and avoid doing things that would remind you of her I guess. Gl though <3
  
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Default 07-17-2012, 05:23 PM

I would have stuck the dude immideatly. then threw him down the nearest flight if stairs. but thats just me. i hope everything works out with you guys. try talking to her about it?


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Default 07-17-2012, 05:37 PM

This was my love man, I can't just move on. I would probably ran after the guy if my chest hadn't sunk. I've had so many options to cheat on her, so many requests to smash and passed them all down. I'm a poor guy, I work for money to go home, smoke a blunt and buy a pack of ciggerates. I save my money to pay bills, going to sixflags was her idea and I spent money out of my savings to have a fun time and then get completely fucked over. I can't just move on as easy as it sounds.


  
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Default 07-17-2012, 05:42 PM

Have sex with her best friend.
No but seriously, try to get over her. If she's going to do that to you after 4 years, then she is not worth your time.
  
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Default 07-17-2012, 05:50 PM

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This was my love man, I can't just move on. I would probably ran after the guy if my chest hadn't sunk. I've had so many options to cheat on her, so many requests to smash and passed them all down. I'm a poor guy, I work for money to go home, smoke a blunt and buy a pack of ciggerates. I save my money to pay bills, going to sixflags was her idea and I spent money out of my savings to have a fun time and then get completely fucked over. I can't just move on as easy as it sounds.
How old are you? Be honest.

Moving on isn't easy but it's necessary. If you spend your time thinking what your life would be like with x girl back in your life, you'll get nowhere. You can still function as a human being without her. Shit happens, life goes on.
  
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Default 07-17-2012, 05:56 PM

Just move on man, I can tell you all these things and you will tell me how special it was, realistically relationships don't always last for ever, it's part of life ya kow?, trust me I know a relationship therapist, also don't start dating to get your thoughts of this girl you will just hurt your other partner in the process, the sooner you get over it the better. there is really no other advice anyone else can give you.


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