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Default pretty deep. - 09-27-2012, 10:37 AM

Ok, my friends mum and dad are big drinkers, i know that because im his house a lot, i don't see much, but when he comes to college, he has black eyes, bruises etc..

He isn't a violent guy so i know he hasn't been in any fights or anything, so i know it must be down to his parents, they are a pretty wealthy family, but i don't have the confidence to confront him about it, so i don't really know what to do, i know a lot of people on these forums, if you could give me any advice on what i should do:/

Or if i should let him decide when enough is enough and let him handle the situation, its upsetting to see a friend potentially getting hit/beat up by his own parents, i don't know if this is the case, but Ive seen him on more than one occasion with bruises black eyes, broken wrists.

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Default 09-27-2012, 10:39 AM

You are both in college? Are there any possibilities for him to live on campus away from his parents?
  
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Default 09-27-2012, 10:40 AM

It isnt that sort of college, its a local college, so you go there on your timetabled days, say 3 days a week, and then come home


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Default 09-27-2012, 10:40 AM

he does a martial art.

If my drunk parent would hit me i'd hit him twice as hard back.

Best advice is just confront him directly



  
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Default 09-27-2012, 10:43 AM

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he does a martial art.

If my drunk parent would hit me i'd hit him twice as hard back.

Best advice is just confront him directly
Thanks, but not sure if he'd feel uncomfortable, we both play SG and if you knew him you'd know he's a nice dude, very chill, wouldnt hurt anyone, example he pks alot, if he pks someone he would always give the loot back, thanks for the advice


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Default 09-27-2012, 10:46 AM

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Thanks, but not sure if he'd feel uncomfortable, we both play SG and if you knew him you'd know he's a nice dude, very chill, wouldnt hurt anyone, example he pks alot, if he pks someone he would always give the loot back, thanks for the advice
as already said it's not all about the parents, maybe he gets bullied, he's hunted by loansharks there's endless possibilities.

best thing is to ask him directly



  
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Default 09-27-2012, 10:57 AM

No, he's liked by everyone in my town, and he's 17 im pretty sure he isnt hunted by loan sharks, like i said, he's comes from a wealthy family


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Default 09-27-2012, 11:02 AM

He sounds like he's too nice to defend himself. You need to talk to him and find out what the problem is for sure and then figure out a way to solve it.
  
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Default 09-27-2012, 09:21 PM

If i were you i would casually bring up the bruises and ask him about them, maybe try to get him to share what goes on, and find out whats really happening to him and then see if theres anything you can do about it. The last thing you want is to assume his parents do it and try to confront his parents about it, then find out it isnt them and make not only you but your friend uncomfortable.


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