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Default Dating - 08-27-2013, 08:29 PM

Alright I'm dating this girl, But we hide it, Because she's good friends with my ex, But it's starting to bother me how should I say it bothers me.. I don't want to lose her, But I don't want to be secretive anymore..


  
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Default 08-27-2013, 08:39 PM

If the ex is that one bitch we've talked about (not gonna say her name on here) then fuck her opinion on it. If your girlfriend isn't comfortable with her friends not liking you than she needs new friends or she's not the right girl for you.

We'll talk about this more in a week when I get home.


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Default 08-27-2013, 08:45 PM

How long ago did you date this other girl?
  
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How long ago did you date this other girl?
almost 8 months ago is when we broke up


  
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Default 08-27-2013, 09:21 PM

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almost 8 months ago is when we broke up
Rofl then fuck her, it's not like you just broke up with her.
  
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Rofl then fuck her, it's not like you just broke up with her.
the girl and i also fated for about a year and a half..


  
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Default 08-27-2013, 10:41 PM

just be honest with her. in every relationship there is bound to be arguements. just say it bothers me that your best friends with my ex. it feels really awkward and i dont mind being friends but not best friends
  
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just be honest with her. in every relationship there is bound to be arguements. just say it bothers me that your best friends with my ex. it feels really awkward and i dont mind being friends but not best friends
It doesn't bother me that they are friends, It bothers me that we aren't open about our relationship.


  
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Default 08-27-2013, 10:47 PM

than tell her it feels awkward keeping secret relationships. ive had many like that be straight up with them
  
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Default 08-27-2013, 10:58 PM

Okay Zach here go

Alright I'm dating this girl - Grz on the achievment bro I'm happy for you

But we hide it, Because she's good friends with my ex - Honestly if your girlfriend is so worried about your ex finding out about your relationship then that right there is one big sketch. Just because she's "good friends" with your ex doesn't mean that automatically gives her the rights to keep your relationship hidden. If it's a good relationship then she should be proud of it.

But it's starting to bother me how should I say it bothers me..
I don't want to lose her, But I don't want to be secretive anymore..
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Don't ever let yourself get to where you're uncomfortable in a relationship, one thing about relationships is always being able to have an open discussion with your partner about your feelings and problems, in this case I suggest you have one of these "discussions" with her. If she truly cares for you she'll understand and accept it.

You got this Zach.






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