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Default Drugs - 05-07-2014, 02:40 PM

My best friend has really been into her drugs recently... She made a new friend and all they do is cocaine and what's not.
It's completely changed who she is (was?) and I'm not sure what to do.

It's seriously effected her learning and she's dropped lesson and subject because she's always out 'partying; lets call it.

Everyone in our group has had words with her but it always gets thrown back and she turns defensive and puts aggression on us.
Most of them have given up on her and I don't really blame them at this rate.. I'm not sure if there's anything I can do?

I don't want her to throw her life away, but at the same time it is her life to lead. I just want what's best for her and idk what to do.

Being straight edge I think it makes it harder to talk to me? I don#t want to lose another person I love to drug but I still don't know how to cope with it mentally. I'm not a weak person but, they're defiantly my Achilles heel.


  
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Default 05-07-2014, 02:43 PM

not really much you can do for her if she doesn't accept help, let her go scott.


  
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Default 05-07-2014, 02:43 PM

It's really fucking hard to talk someone out of a drug like cocaine after they start.

They have to decide themselves that they want to quit and it probably is going to take her coming to the realization of how much it can fuck up their life.
  
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Default 05-07-2014, 02:44 PM

It might sound or feel wrong but put her in a detox drug clinic before she ruins her entire life.
You won't regret it and she will be very happy and thankful later.
You will probably risk your friendship with her if you do it, but I'd do it for a friend that's in need and doesn't know it himself.







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Default 05-07-2014, 02:45 PM

Even though she might not like it, tell her parents. Drugs aren't bad as long as they don't affect your regular life (which they almost always do ), but if they do, it's time to do something about it.

That's what I would do, I have no experience with such cases, even though the stereotypical view from people of Dutch people doing drugs 24/7.




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Default 05-07-2014, 02:53 PM

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not really much you can do for her if she doesn't accept help, let her go scott.
I really don't want to, it hurt but I need to help her...
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It's really fucking hard to talk someone out of a drug like cocaine after they start.

They have to decide themselves that they want to quit and it probably is going to take her coming to the realization of how much it can fuck up their life.
Is there nothing to can do to help her come to that conclusion though?

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It might sound or feel wrong but put her in a detox drug clinic before she ruins her entire life.
You won't regret it and she will be very happy and thankful later.
You will probably risk your friendship with her if you do it, but I'd do it for a friend that's in need and doesn't know it himself.
It's a fair idea, but I'm not her parents and I can't just go and tell them something like this...

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Even though she might not like it, tell her parents. Drugs aren't bad as long as they don't affect your regular life (which they almost always do oker), but if they do, it's time to do something about it.

That's what I would do, I have no experience with such cases, even though the stereotypical view from people of Dutch people doing drugs 24/7.
She's got a really shaky homelife... Her parents are divorced, her dad does quite well but her mum is kind of like her in a sense.

I could tell her dad and step mum i guess, but she's apparently on the verge of being kicked out by them? Is it wise to but in when things are so hostile already?


  
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Default 05-07-2014, 02:55 PM

Nothing you can do if she chooses not to listen, so many people don't understand.
If shes still with her parents I'd tell them.
  
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Default 05-07-2014, 03:05 PM

don't tell her parents, you don't know how they would react...


  
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Default 05-07-2014, 03:07 PM

Doe to irl problems, am a pretty broken person and i would never consider hard drugs.

Does drugs are for down people, nothing you can actually do.
  
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Default 05-07-2014, 03:08 PM

Well you're a good friend for sticking with her.
You could try help her..
Anyway you can help her will help. Everything with drugs helps.
  
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