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Default Meh - 11-29-2011, 07:37 PM

I wasn't really sure where to post this to be honest. I don't know if it's advice I'm seeking or just someone to talk to. So, here it goes.

Note: I'm not seeking any attention, this is not a suicidal thread whatsoever, I am not "emo" and last but not least please don't be rude if you're going to post, at least put some thought into what you have to say. Even if you say "sorry, sucks to be you." I consider that rude, don't say things like "You're emo, go kill yourself." Because I am not usually like this, most people that know me know that I am a very happy and bubbly person. kThnx

First of all, this is a mental and physical problem. I'm not sure what's causing it..

I have random "mood swings" and I'm not sure why, I don't normally do this not even when it's my "time of the month." I'll be so happy and excited one second and then randomly the next minute everything bothers me. I'll go from feeling like I'm on top of the world to feeling like everyone is out to get me. I feel abandoned by all my friends, yet they are always there to talk to me. I don't have that many friends in person because I just never go anywhere to be honest. The ones I do have are always too busy to hang out with me or doing something that I don't want to participate in. I feel like all my online friends have slowly grown from me, we've stopped talking as much as usual. I make new friends to try to forget about my old ones, but it's not helping. It seems to be making things worse actually. And this is just the beginning of my problem.

Secondly, when I tell people I'm upset, mad or sad and they question why I am I get even more pissed. I'm not sure why I do that either, I get so frustrated I just want to spam and jam all my keys all over the place. I want to tell people why I'm upset with them if I am, but when I try to I can't ever seem to find the words I want to use or I can never seem to be able to explain what's wrong with me how I want to, so instead of being calm and trying again I get mad as fuck and rage at everyone that talks to me, about me or comes anywhere near me.

My physical problems are the most annoying of them. Every time I feel hungry and I try to eat I get nauseous. It sucks because it's not a normal hunger feeling, I feel empty, so I assume it's hunger, then when I try to cook the smell of the food makes me want to vomit. I feel this way a lot, it's like a weird feeling in the pit of my stomach. Sometimes I feel like my throat is really dry and I can't swallow. I drink water, but it doesn't help sometimes. Then I get this weird lump in my throat, I'm not sure what it is, it makes it hard to breathe sometimes. Also, I've been having migraines so horribly, I never have headaches so this is very unusual for me.

Note: I have the implant birth control, if you have this and you know if it causes any of this, please reply.


Also, I feel like this is odd, I'm not sure how to feel about this actually..

I wasn't sure, but I thought you were supposed to care about your "irl" friends more than online friends. I mean, don't get me wrong I love you all, but I just figured that is how it worked. But apparently not for me, when my "irl" friends ditch me or can't hang out it doesn't upset me as much as it does when certain people "abandon" me online. I hate growing apart from people and I hate when friendships fade it drives me nuts. It can be easily avoided, yet it still happens. Why? Is there any way to keep this from happening. I mean I'm doing my part in the friendships, at least I think so. I thought friends where supposed to tell each other things that happen in their life. I hate finding out from another source, it really bothers me when people can't tell you things, but this is besides the point.

I just really needed to vent sort of and I didn't want to "Google" advice, I like talking to "real" people about shit sometimes. I don't want to read something that was posted on Yahoo Answers four years ago. Anyhow, I hope somebody actually takes the time to read this and respond with an educated, thoughtful answer..

Thanks for reading.


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Default 11-29-2011, 07:47 PM

Have you tried talking to your parents about it? mostly those are the two persons you can go to with whatever problem.

Try to talk to certain in real life friends , real friends are there to help you.

Try going to a doctor and let them have you under a test , ( it mights sound wierd but i had it to and it helps )


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Default 11-29-2011, 07:51 PM

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Have you tried talking to your parents about it? mostly those are the two persons you can go to with whatever problem.

Try to talk to certain in real life friends , real friends are there to help you.

Try going to a doctor and let them have you under a test , ( it mights sound wierd but i had it to and it helps )


I'm sorry if this was not a good answer , i'm doing my best.
Thank you for at least taking the time to read this. I appreciate your reply.

No, I have not spoken with my parents. It's not something I want to speak with my mother about. My father, eh. He's not around to talk to. I have no insurance right now for some reason or I would have done that already, I guess it got taken away? Idk, South Carolina sucks.


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Default 11-29-2011, 07:58 PM

Well, time to charge my phone then.
I'm a terrible friend.. hell.. don't even deserve to be called a friend anymore.
I pretty much abandoned you..

Going to text you.
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Default 11-29-2011, 08:29 PM

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Well, time to charge my phone then.
I'm a terrible friend.. hell.. don't even deserve to be called a friend anymore.
I pretty much abandoned you..

Going to text you.
Cba to type a response on here.
It's cool, don't worry about it. I'm used to it, seems it's been happening a lot lately. Not sure if it's my fault or theirs. I don't want to blame people, but I don't think I have changed really.. I've been the same as I always was..


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Default 11-29-2011, 08:30 PM

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It's cool, don't worry about it. I'm used to it, seems it's been happening a lot lately. Not sure if it's my fault or theirs. I don't want to blame people, but I don't think I have changed really.. I've been the same as I always was..
It's not you , i know that for a fact.
  
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Default 12-01-2011, 12:10 PM

First bit sounds a bit like bipolar.. If it pisses you of when people ask you what's wrong etc, just politely ask them to leave you alone or something to avoid further aggravation.

I have the same problem; referring to the eating one.. I consulted my doctor and they gave me some tablets that help a lot; I recommend you do that also.

I'm pretty sure I know what situation you're talking about in the last paragraph.. You should take into consideration that they may have other things on their mind and may not have the time to actually tell you personally what's going on. Try not to take it to personally, it's likely not to be your thought.

I'm not amazing at giving advice, but I tried. Hope I helped a little bit.
  
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Default 12-01-2011, 02:03 PM

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First bit sounds a bit like bipolar.. If it pisses you of when people ask you what's wrong etc, just politely ask them to leave you alone or something to avoid further aggravation.

I have the same problem; referring to the eating one.. I consulted my doctor and they gave me some tablets that help a lot; I recommend you do that also.

I'm pretty sure I know what situation you're talking about in the last paragraph.. You should take into consideration that they may have other things on their mind and may not have the time to actually tell you personally what's going on. Try not to take it to personally, it's likely not to be your thought.

I'm not amazing at giving advice, but I tried. Hope I helped a little bit.
Thank you very much, Miriam. I appreciate your reply. I may be able to get insurance again soon so I'll go to a doctor when I can. I try to ask people to nicely stop asking me over and over, when I want to talk about it will, is what I usually say. I just get so frustrated and it makes me angry. :/


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Default 12-01-2011, 02:26 PM

im not good at giving advice so im sorry if this is bad

firstly i know we hardly know each other and we've only spoke a couple of times ingame.

if someone asks you whats wrong, just politly tell them you will tell them whats wrong in your own time as you don't feel like talking about it for the time being.


i recomend going to see the doctor when you get insurance again, i would say i have the same problem but mines different as i used to force myself not to eat as all i got was everyone being against me.

some people have other things on thier mind or it might be the fact that they don't feel like talking about thier past. don't take it personally. also if people do abandon you, it's not your fault.


finally no matter what happens you will always have us. we may be online but we will always be here for you

like i said before sorry if this is bad advice




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Default 12-01-2011, 02:26 PM

I've sort of been in the same position before, and I didn't know what was up. Like Miriam said, you may be a bit bipolar, and I say that in the friendliest way possible. However, you shouldn't think that you're bipolar... I actually think it's something to do with being self-independent. Were you kind of forced to make your own decisions and be more mature at an early age? Usually, people who "grow up too fast" end up being so independent that they don't want to talk to others, and when they do talk to others, they're easily annoyed. I can be a bit like that at times.

As for real life friends .vs. the online friends, and can see your point. Hanging out with friends in real life can be nice, but just hiding behind a computer screen and talking to people around the world can also be nice. You can say stuff to people online that you would never dream of saying to your friends in real life, right? I don't know... but maybe if you are independent, that's why it seems like you're relationships with your friends are breaking apart. And to be honest, a friend is someone that comes to you, and doesn't need to be talked to first for them to understand what's going on with you, if that makes sense. >_>

And now for the eating part... girl cramps? Lul, joking. Miriam suggested taking pills for it, but going to get medicine for something isn't always the best option. If the smell of food makes you nauseous, then it's probably something that you've eaten too much and have just got sick and tired of. I would try changing your diet? Not sure though. I've gone vegetarian because the smell of meat makes me sick, and most of those greasy foods out there also make me want to throw up. (School lunches suck, just saying) If all else fails, then go to the doctor, and ask them what to do, but don't jump to conclusions on whatever they say.

Go take a hot bath. It can always help. :3


  
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