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Default A tattoo I want to get - 01-21-2013, 03:42 PM

This is kind of a long story, but I want to tell the whole thing so that there is no confusion. About three years ago, I asked this girl named Mindy if she would marry me. She said yes, and we were engaged. A few months later, I met this girl named Cassee. Cassee and I were complete, 180 degree opposites in every way. Despite that, I felt a connection immediately, from the day I laid eyes on her. Something in my heart told me that, somehow, someday, Cassee and I are destined to be together.

A few months went passed, and Mindy decided she wanted to break up with me. She told me she was tired of a long-distance relationship (I live in Pennsylvania, she lives in California). Off topic, this is a load of bull, since she started dating a guy less than a week later that lives in Australia. Anyway, back to the story. Cassee and I worked together every night. We were always having fun, flirting or antagonizing each other. No matter what, two things happened every night. We always had fun, and we always worked amazingly well together. Because of how different we were, she filled in my weaknesses, and I filled in hers.

Due to the fact that my fiance had just dumped me, I wasn't in a dating mood, so I stayed single for a while. Cassee and I never had sex, never even kissed, but we did some foreplay-like things. I won't get into details, but unless you knew better, you'd assuming Cassee and I were a couple. I was finally getting over Mindy, when I heard grim news: Cassee was moving away, for college. She was going to live about 3 hours from me. We discussed a long-distance relationship, but eventually both decided against it. Ultimately, in my heart, I knew that Cassee would be mine when she finished school. The day before she left, I told her that I loved her, and she had the biggest smile on her face.

Fast forward about nine months. I got a phone call, from my boss. She told me that she just heard from an employee whom's dad works with Cassee's dad, that Cassee had died. I spent that night in tears. The following day, I found this article, explaining what happened. To this day, I cannot read it without a tear.

Now, about 7 months later, I am with a new love, Rachel. However, despite being with Rachel, and loving her as I do, Cassee still holds a very special place in my heart. I still think about her every day, and miss her every night. Depending on your belief, you can either agree with me, or think it's a meaningless dream, but Cassee has approached me in dreams over the last few months when I was at my deepest depressions from the accident. In one, she told me that she'd be waiting for me in the next life. In a more recent one, after I got with Rachel, she told me that she's glad I'm moving on, and can enjoy life again. She told me that she'll be watching over me, and hopes the best for me. In both of these dreams, she told me the same thing that I told her about a year ago, that she loves me.

Now, for the question. Rachel knows about Cassee (though I haven't mentioned her coming to me in my dreams), and she doesn't feel bothered by it. She's been supportive of me in my depressed moods, missing her. She's been completely helpful. I was thinking about getting a tattoo, though I don't know where, saying:

Cassandra Singer
12/8/92-6/11/12
God rest your soul

The question is, do you think that my girlfriend now might be offended by this tattoo, if I get it? I was thinking either on my arm or shoulder, rather than over my heart, which I think would have bothered her the most.



Cassandra Lynn "Cassee" Singer
12/8/1992-6/11/2012
May God rest your soul. <3

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Default 01-21-2013, 03:49 PM

Wow thats a sad story.
Your choice if you want it :P
  
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Default 01-21-2013, 03:53 PM

I'm sure she could understand. If she passed away I don't see your girlfriend getting offended/jealous about it.
  
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Default 01-21-2013, 04:01 PM

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Wow thats a sad story.
Your choice if you want it :P


You had a close bond with Cassee and I don't think Rachel would be offended by the tattoo. I'd say go ahead and get the tattoo to honor her death, I'm also sorry for your loss and wish you my deepest condolences.






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Default 01-21-2013, 04:06 PM

damn what a horrible thing to go through. Honestly if Rachel is mad about you getting that tattoo then thats kind of fucked up. First off its your choice what you want to do with your body. Secondly, if Cassee was that close to you and you really feel for her and miss her every day then by all means go get that tattoo to remind you of her.








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Default 01-21-2013, 04:08 PM

Meow...i think she would be not offended but... disturbed? i am almost sure she will not be 100% with it...
Sad story... thats the real meaning of "shit happens"... my respects man...

Still, very romantic man here. +1
  
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Default 01-21-2013, 04:43 PM

Honestly, just tell your girlfriend that Cassee was your best friend (don't say you loved her), and I think your girlfriend will think it's sweet.

Sorry for your loss, by the way.
  
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Default 01-21-2013, 04:55 PM

I pitched the idea and she was supportive. Thanks for the encouragement everyone.



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Default 01-21-2013, 05:03 PM

I'd go against getting the tattoo, but that's my own preference.

Sorry for your loss.


  
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Default 01-21-2013, 05:47 PM

Id also go against the tattoo, death is a apart of life and everyone has to accept it and move on.

sorry for your loss


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