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Default A Girl. - 10-23-2013, 02:35 PM

I met this cute girl a while back in my Senior year of high school. I actually consider her to be the girl of my dreams. Well at first, she looked at me and had her eyes wide open. All I did during my Senior year was ignore her. I said hi a couple of times and she said hi back. All she wanted was for me to talk to her because we both liked each other. I was going to take her to my prom but I was too shy to do it. I was also bipolar that year - I was manic and I was depressed. She kept on getting annoyed with me due to the fact that she asked me what was wrong countless of times and I ignored her. Even to this day, I still feel bad. I still think about her greatly. I dream about being with her day and night, but I still have the thought in the back of my Mind that she hates me. I saw her on the bus when coming home from college about 4 months ago. She looked at me with a sad and whispered "Josh" to herself. I looked at her and became depressed again because, yet again, I still feel bad that I ignored her throughout her Freshman year. Right now, she is a Senior and I'm in college. I really want to go to her prom so I thought about giving her flowers on Valentine's Day. It might be from "Anonymous" or me - I'm not sure yet. I wanted to make it up to her a few months ago, but she said no thanks. I feel as if she hates me and I don't like it when people hate me. During Senior year, I hallucinated and heard voices because of my depression, so everytime she said hi, I hallucinated and looked mad at her.

Bottom Line - I wanna go to her prom by giving her flowers on Valentine's Day. Hopefully she'll remember me and ask me to prom, but I'm still not sure of it. I feel two-sided on this. She's been ignoring me on Facebook as well. Why do I keep trying? Because she's the girl of my dreams - that's why I don't stop. I also can't stop because she keeps on coming back into my Mind. When I remind myself that she ignores me, I want her out and I want to forget about her. The other side of me wants to go to her prom badly and be with her.

Any advice? If you need more information then please let me know! Anything at all.




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Default 10-23-2013, 02:49 PM

so you ignored her when you liked her and you knew she liked you back.
am i reading this wrong or wat cause if that's the case then wtf u basket case.

my advice: apologize to her and hope for the best. idk what else u can do.





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Default 10-23-2013, 03:34 PM

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kill self maybe
Because encouraging another to kill themselves is good relationship advice.

Fuck off.

@Rodrigues Open your mouth and tell her. "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to ignore you. I was focused and didn't know what I wanted with my life. Now, I want you to be a part of my life, if you would" *flowers*



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Default 10-23-2013, 03:40 PM

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Because encouraging another to kill themselves is good relationship advice.

Fuck off.

@Rodrigues Open your mouth and tell her. "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to ignore you. I was focused and didn't know what I wanted with my life. Now, I want you to be a part of my life, if you would" *flowers*
flowers are too cheesy.
get her something that actually means something to her. do you know if shes a big of something.
for example: say she's a fan of pandas. Get her a panda doll or something. lame example but i hope you get my point.





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Default 10-23-2013, 03:42 PM

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flowers are too cheesy.
get her something that actually means something to her. do you know if shes a big of something.
for example: say she's a fan of pandas. Get her a panda doll or something. lame example but i hope you get my point.
I beg to differ. Flowers are not cheesy. I'm a girl. I know this shit.



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Default 10-23-2013, 04:46 PM

just explain the situation. if shes worth going for she'll understand




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Default 10-24-2013, 12:03 PM

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flowers are too cheesy.
get her something that actually means something to her. do you know if shes a big of something.
for example: say she's a fan of pandas. Get her a panda doll or something. lame example but i hope you get my point.
How are flowers cheesy? Girls that I know love flowers.




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Default 10-24-2013, 12:17 PM

I'm not sure but I'm pretty sure anyone not specifically girls like things that come from the heart for a present so tell her the truth as britt was suggesting and you could get her flowers as well.




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Default 10-24-2013, 01:33 PM

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How are flowers cheesy? Girls that I know love flowers.
whats next, chocolate shoes

unless she has a favourite flower and you know it, there are better gestures
  
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