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Default Confidence - 07-29-2010, 01:42 PM

Do you want to go far in life? Are you not confident? Sort it out, NOW.

You need to gain confidence.

Why? Confidence is the key to everything in life, if you don't have the guts to;
  • Face Your Fears
  • Talk To New People
  • Give Advice And Actually Express Your Opinion When You Think Someone's Doing Something Wrong
  • Try New Things
  • Talk About Anything With Anyone

You'll get nowhere.
Why?
Take this scenario for instance;

You think that your friend is going to come to harm or something bad's going to happen to them if they carry on smoking, but you don't want to tell them./
They're getting harmed every second of their life that they smoke a cigarette, and you don't tell them.
They're decreasing their lifetime length and you've got then power to stop it, but you're too scared that they're going to turn around and reject you.

They'll never do that, if you talk to them alone and actually tell them the reasons that they should stop, every time they smoke 1 cigarette, they'll be thinking, is it really worth me spending my own time, and money, on sucking this?
You'll help them.

Or...
You like someone, and you've never really talked to them much, you don't ask them to come out or meet up with you because you're too shy.
You see them in the street 10 years later and chat to them when they have kids and a husband/wife, they turn around and say, you know what? I liked you back when we where kids, I thought that you where really cute (:.
You'll feel like an idiot, and wish that you'd have done something about it while you could.


Confidence is the key to going far in life.


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Default 07-29-2010, 02:18 PM

Yep.

I used to be the shyest kid in class.

Nobody knew I was there. All that.

I recently started saying "fuck it, I nobody knows me anyways" and started just striking conversations with new people, cracking jokes with new crowds, trying new things.

I agree with the cigarettes, but every time I tell my friend off about cigarettes, he continues, shrugging it off, thinking he's the exception.

When I move to Texas, I'm planning on not being the shy new kid. That'd suck as a new impression.

Thanks for posting this, it's really smart and well written, as usual ;]



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Default 07-29-2010, 02:20 PM

um this really helped ty!


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Default 07-29-2010, 02:21 PM

wow nice advice its really ..
and all u said is 100% right


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Default 07-29-2010, 02:29 PM

I give you 'Pog' the award for 'Amazing advice', this would help shy people alot :] :]
  
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Default 07-30-2010, 01:34 AM

Clap Clap Clap Clap For pog. You always know what to say O


  
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Default 07-30-2010, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Bless View Post
Yep.

I used to be the shyest kid in class.

Nobody knew I was there. All that.

I recently started saying "fuck it, I nobody knows me anyways" and started just striking conversations with new people, cracking jokes with new crowds, trying new things.

I agree with the cigarettes, but every time I tell my friend off about cigarettes, he continues, shrugging it off, thinking he's the exception.

When I move to Texas, I'm planning on not being the shy new kid. That'd suck as a new impression.

Thanks for posting this, it's really smart and well written, as usual ;]
This. After middle school my family and I ended up moving and I went to a different high school than all my friends were going. Ended up being really shy didnt hang out much outside of school. Had friends and all but never had a best friend, still don't to this day because once I started not giving a fuck it was too late everybody had their groups lol

Confidence is the key to everything. Looking back to myself being how I was, I can see the change and it's so much better now.

Now I got the money, money and the cars, cars and the clothes, the hoes - i suppose.


If you lack confidence and want an idea of how to build it up a bit I have one word for you. Sports. Athletics. Whichever you want to call it. Football changed me alot. Get active in school clubs and sports and it will 100% benefit you in several different ways.



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Default 07-30-2010, 01:29 PM

This is so true, it also apply's in a relationship, the boy is too scared to ask the girl out in-case he get's rejected but 80% of the time, the girl is just sat there waiting for him to ask.


  
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Default 07-31-2010, 05:31 AM

Claps For Pog.. good advice, confidence IS the key to life.
  
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Default 07-31-2010, 05:34 AM

lol yeh convidence is everything






  
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