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Unhappy So...what do I do? (HELP!) - 05-04-2011, 08:18 PM

I'll let you have a feel like what it's like to be me right now.
Give me advice on what to do?

Pretend you're in a Group.
Now, someone gives the group HUUGE project, since you have a bunch of people in your group; so they're expecting you to hand out the work evenly.

So, you get to work; you discuss what to do. Everyone silently nods their heads.

You ask them to start the work, so you kindly ask a few of them to step outside with you and work on the beginning part.

But no one gets up. They just sit there like they don't care.

You ask multiple times; they just sit there like they don't even hear you. Finally, one person gets up. They walk outside with you. You start to work on the project, and you expect them to assist you. But they leave.

You end up spending 3 hours of the day, working on it alone.
All the other groups have everyone helping, or at least assisting- in a way.

You go home. Automatically, you drop everything and start working on it. You try to ask everyone in your group online to do something. What do you get? No response. You just keep working on it, for 4-6 hours. Your whole body aches, so you just finish up all your other work and call it a day.




The next day; the same thing happens, except there's even more work.
Your group again, has no response. It's like they have no senses.

You go home; same thing, except even more work, and more pain. It's up to the point that you almost can't handle it, almost at your breaking point.




The next day, you go up to the teacher and ask if you can switch groups. The teachers say "well, you're just going to have to sort it out!" Not getting the response you want, you tell them what's happening. What's the response you get? "Sorry, you're just going to have to find a way to distribute the work."

Excuse me? 'Distribute the work?' What do you think I've been trying to do these past couple days? You're working 6-8 hours a day on this, and she just tells you 'find a way out'? You're willing to work hard for success, but you have a limit. You'd like to see her try to pull this off.

You've dealt with groups and assignments like this before, where you end up doing all the work because no one else gives a shit, but this, is too much.




You go home furious. You work on it, and this time you collapse. You've been working on it, all day. You can't handle it, up until 1 AM. You just end up sleeping on your chair.

You just feel like knocking out every member of your group, and giving them all the work. But they're not going to do it. Even if you force the work into their hands, they just say they couldn't finish it because they're busy. You feel like laughing.




This time, it's the final aspect of the project. You go to school, and you hadn't gotten any sleep. You've been pulling all-nighters trying to do all the work. And this time, you feel like just falling asleep on the floor.

You tell the teachers one last time what you're going through, and how they're doing nothing. How you give them work, and they just don't do it. The teachers don't believe that you've done all the work. And there's no way to prove that you have.




You go home, and look at your work load. It's too much, and you that you won't be able to finish it, even if you work through after school, night, and morning. You haven't gotten much sleep through the week; maybe, 4 or 5 hours of sleep? You don't know what to do. You really want to finish the assignment and get a good mark to keep the streak going, but there's no way possible.





So, help guys. I've run out of options, what should I do?
I'm really desperate, thanks.
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Default 05-04-2011, 08:35 PM

I would go talk to a counselor about your teacher not doing anything about the students, she sounds like the type of teacher who doesn't care at all. >.>





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Default 05-04-2011, 08:46 PM

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I would go talk to a counselor about your teacher not doing anything about the students, she sounds like the type of teacher who doesn't care at all. >.>
Yeah, that seems like a good idea. I hope she either:

-Gives a Shit about me -.-
-Thinks I'm speaking the struth
-Doesn't think I'm making excuses.

If she does any of these three, I should be able to be saved.
Thanks for the Advice! I hope she's not like my Teacher...




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Default 05-05-2011, 04:32 AM

Here's what you do.

This grade/assignement is obviously an important one or you wouldn't be trying so hard, correct? All this work is to be distrubuted evenly. I've been in this exact same situation before.

What you need to do is, do YOUR section of the work. If it's divided evenly, you don't need to worry about everyone else. The people in your group are old enough to do their own work independently. They don't want to do theirs? Too bad, they can fail. You do your part, your teachers will notice you're the only person doing anything in your entire group.

This will take off a lot of stress from you, put you in a good light and your teachers will notice that your group did nothing. I know these people are most likely your friends, but watching them squirm on the due date of this assignement will be your biggest reward.

Do your section of the work and reap the benefits.




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Default 05-05-2011, 04:39 AM

Tell her to go fuck herself, video your self doing all this work & they're no where to be seen, get your parents to also vouche for you.

Let the teacher know you're not fuckin' around.
  
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Default 05-05-2011, 04:43 AM

Tell those mofos to get off their asses! >
  
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Default 05-05-2011, 08:19 AM

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Here's what you do.

This grade/assignement is obviously an important one or you wouldn't be trying so hard, correct? All this work is to be distrubuted evenly. I've been in this exact same situation before.

What you need to do is, do YOUR section of the work. If it's divided evenly, you don't need to worry about everyone else. The people in your group are old enough to do their own work independently. They don't want to do theirs? Too bad, they can fail. You do your part, your teachers will notice you're the only person doing anything in your entire group.

This will take off a lot of stress from you, put you in a good light and your teachers will notice that your group did nothing. I know these people are most likely your friends, but watching them squirm on the due date of this assignement will be your biggest reward.

Do your section of the work and reap the benefits.
See, there's the problem. Pepole in my group don't care whether they fail or not. The Teacher doesn't see us working, as she never observes.

When I only do part of the assignment, the teacher gets pissed-as the project hadn't been done. She doesn't care that I did my portion and my group didn't, all she cares about is the finished project.

I try to show her I'm the one leading the group, doing all the work. Does she believe me? Nope. Does she want me to show her proof? Nope.

(Basically, I have a teacher who won't care about portions.)

Thanks for responding anyways!



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See, there's the problem. Pepole in my group don't care whether they fail or not. The Teacher doesn't see us working, as she never observes.

When I only do part of the assignment, the teacher gets pissed-as the project hadn't been done. She doesn't care that I did my portion and my group didn't, all she cares about is the finished project.

I try to show her I'm the one leading the group, doing all the work. Does she believe me? Nope. Does she want me to show her proof? Nope.

(Basically, I have a teacher who won't care about portions.)

Thanks for responding anyways!
Then as long as your parents are willing, ask them to come into school to sort it out. Your group should be doing their work, but it's not them doing the most wrong. Your teacher should be resolving the issue, not leaving it to the children.

Get your parents to have a word with your teacher. If my son came home and told me this, I'd slap their teacher about.




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Default 05-05-2011, 02:10 PM

First of your teachers a dick, second bring it to your parents like welsh said, if your getting in trouble for bullshit you didnt do than im pretty sure your teachers the one to blame >:[
  
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Default 05-05-2011, 06:01 PM

Tell your parents, let your parents complain to the school, and hopefully either you will be transferred to another class, or she will be facing the consequences.

Well, I've indeed experienced this before, though, it wasn't as huge as this. All I had to do, was create 8 index cards full with information on a philosopher, while my group members were doing some easy questions. Ended up that I got most of the credit, since my teacher actually gave a shit on who did the work and what not. He was observing our table the most, because mainly, he would see me working since I had the most work to do.

Just tell your group to go fuck themselves, deck them in the face, or curse out your teacher in rage. Just kidding, but like I said, get your parents to complain. Or perhaps transfer to another school, if you don't feel comfortable with this one. Good luck!
  
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