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Default Is it normal I want my mom out of my life? - 06-16-2011, 02:28 PM

Please no troll answers this is very serious..

Well my mom does drugs behind my back and thinks I don't know but I do, she basically neglects me. She goes out everyday and doesn't come home til early in the morning sometimes she doesnt come back for a whole day. To be honest whenever I see her it just stresses me out I honestly think there's something wrong with her brain. I really want to move out of her house and go live with my dad but she threatens to kill herself when ever I bring it up. What can i do? Also when she is home she just sleeps all day like legit she sleeps ALL the time I don't even know how that's possible.
  
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Default 06-16-2011, 02:43 PM

It is completely normal,
This is what happened to Eminem too, please don't take the wrong meaning.
When I saw Eminem's life in his songs, I got teary .

I understand what you're going through, but seriously you ought to be tougher than that bro.
I doubt your mom will actually kill herself, although I know it is probably very scary for you to be going through all this.

But, sit with your mom on a couch or something and be completely serious with her.
Then gently talk it out, and tell her that you'll visit her once a week to start with and lower it from there.

That's just something I would do, if I were in your situation, but you do what is appropriate of you, I won't be the judge of that .

Good luck.


  
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Default 06-16-2011, 02:43 PM

Both of you need to go to counseling, together.

You may say you want her gone, but you probably don't


  
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Default 06-16-2011, 02:49 PM

I have to agree with Dillon about counseling, call your dad and talk to him about it as well.





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Default 06-16-2011, 05:29 PM

Same sorta stuff happened with my dad, but he just left ._.

If you feel you're living with a complete stranger that won't go out of their way to take care of you, you shouldn't have to live there. Try talking to her when she's sober or somewhat lucid and see if you can convince her to at least try to go clean. If you can't, contact a counselor or someone else you can confide in for help.

Best of luck to you.
  
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Default 06-16-2011, 05:38 PM

Your in the same situation as my cousins.

Their father died last year and their mother is an alcoholic. She doesn't have a job and she sells the food stamps she gets for money that she spends on herself & her boyfriend. She buys her boyfriend Lobsters and shit and doesn't buy her kids any food.

It's all one messed up situation, but I have no idea what your going through day by day, but in the end just do what feels right, because no one can give you advice but yourself on a topic like this.




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Default 06-16-2011, 05:42 PM

Thanks for the advice I'm going to spend the summer with my dad to get away from this I might try and approach her when I come back for school and get help.
  
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Default 06-16-2011, 05:44 PM

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Thanks for the advice I'm going to spend the summer with my dad to get away from this I might try and approach her when I come back for school and get help.
Good idea, it'll help you get her problems off your mind and things will work themselves out.




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Default 06-16-2011, 05:44 PM

If your mom thinks you don't know, like you say, prove to her that you do know.

And tell her to change her life style.

Be straight forward with her... I mean sure, a mom is a mom even in Africa, but
doing what she's doing is horrid.

Tell her to change, or GTFO (sorry for that).
  
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Default 06-16-2011, 08:29 PM

call suicide hotline, get her in counciling/rehab, live with dad, (1 year later) go back, mom fine, parole adn job, happy




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