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Default I need your advice. - 09-23-2011, 11:05 PM

I'm not looking for stupid, pointless advice. I'm looking for really, meaningful advice.

So. Their is this girl, and she is a lesbian. Well. Her girlfriend, treats her like total shit. When they broke up, she was a naturally happier person, because the other girl did nothing but drag her down.

Well anyways. When they broke up, I was always their. To help her through everything. I was their every single morning when she was CRYING because the other girl said some fucked up shit. I was the one that would go to 1st hour with tears on my shoulder, not the other girl.

So two days ago, I went up to see her, and we usually hug. Well when I went in for a hug, she said "erm. Uh." And I said, "what?.." And the other girl walks up to me and gets in my face and says, "She doesn't want a FUCKING hug from you," And i said, "excuse me?"

She went on to say "Do you think I'm scared of you?" I said "Do you think I'm scared of YOU!?!@!?" She backed up, and I said the my friend, "Give me a hug so i can walk away" and she backed up and bowed her head down. She's not the same around the other girl..


So my question is. What should I tell her, That she shouldn't be with her? That she should leave me alone? I really don't know.

This story may not mean much to you, but it does to me, so just. Please. Give me some advice as to what I could possible do.
  
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Default 09-23-2011, 11:21 PM

Trent, First off Where you and her friends b4 this other girl was with her?

Then if you have always been there you should tell her what your heart says man.
tell her the truth on how u feel about the other girl, that you don't like her and you think
she treats ur friend like shit or w/e.

Follow what your heart says to do man. And if you guys are real friends she will listen.

If you ever wanna talk about it pm me so others don't have to bother with it bro.
I hope what i said helps some. Best of luck man.


  
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Default 09-23-2011, 11:23 PM

Tell her If she makes Her Happy, Stay with her and or Try get back with Her Partner, If not... Simple.
But if she is annoying you and you're ok with helping her and Her Crying side of things i Reckon she would be very grateful Later on in Both of your Lives....
So My Suggestion is... If she is realy too much To Handle.. Tell he rto leave you alone, But if you are ok with this, Help her through her Bad days.
Hopefully This helped you Trent <3


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Default 09-23-2011, 11:42 PM

Yes, people have said tell her that she's dragging you down and that she's bad for her etc etc.

I've had the same problem except my mate (female) was dating a huge prick.

We all told her to stop dating him because he was a prick.. but she never listened, and when they did break up, they ended up going back out again.

So my advice is to wait for your friend to find out TRULY what a bitch this girl is, and what she does to your friends reputation, and feelings.

Sure, it's all well and good saying "Tell her she's bad, and they'll break up" But some people look too far down into a person that they don't see the bad things. It's happened to my female friend before. So yeah, I reckon just keep telling her what a bitch she is etc, BUT wait for her to realize it herself.

Hope it helped.


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Default 09-23-2011, 11:56 PM

Thanks, very much. I'd like to really thank Beckly,
"Follow what your heart says to do man. And if you guys are real friends she will listen."

Mavex, Oh Mavex, Thank you very much, :]

Mr Rouze, Thank you, That really did help me, (:
  
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Default 09-24-2011, 08:20 AM

I say tell her to leave her alone. Obviously she doesn't love her because
if she treats her like shit then don't really mean she loves her!
So you should tell the girl that was crying on your shoulder
to leave the nasty women...



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Default 09-24-2011, 08:47 AM

Thanks Alex. :3
  
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