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Default It's your life. - 03-05-2012, 07:51 AM




There will be 2 types of people sitting there looking at this post. The first will be thinking "Yes, I know it's my life?", The second will be thinking "Hmm, okay, where's this going?".

If you're that first person, you're very naive and you need to stop judging a book by its cover, for starters. If you're the second person, congratulations, I'm glad you're intrigued.

So, I'm an 18 year old boy. Why am I different to anyone else? I guess everyone has their faults in life and I too have mine. I've had open heart surgery, which has left me with a 2 foot scar down my chest. (That's just my main fault). I have mad feeling swings that constantly control me and make me look like an ass, and most of all I over-think things too much.

Now, what is this about? Why the hell am I going on about myself, you're thinking.
While I typed out my problems, you were comparing your own, weren't you? You were trying to make your problems seem worse than mine, so that you could make me look like a dumb-ass, weren't you? Indeed you were.

That's because we are all extremely good and finding what's bad in us. But the truth is, if we didn't have flaws, we wouldn't be who we are. Sure, people love us for our "pro's" and not our "con's" but we are a package and people need to accept us for that.

I titled this "It's your life" because nowadays teenagers, like me, who have been through a lot need to realise that in your life, you should be the person who matters the most. THAT DOES NOT MEAN, to be selfish. That just means, you need to be happy.

Why contemplate suicide? You live once, don't bother ending it fast in the cowards way. Be happy.
If you have constant negative thoughts about yourself, you need to stop it, and do whatever it takes to make yourself happy.
I don't care what it is that makes you happy, go and do it right now. Go throw a water-bomb at someone out of your window and drop a bag of flour on them... go and pull a random persons pants down in the street. Just chill out and be happy.

My point is, your life is yours and you need to be happy. You live it once so that's one shot. It's not an x-box game where if you die you can play again, you get one shot to live it how you want, and you should be happy in it.

Hope this inspired even one person, slightly. If it did, I have done my job.




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Default 03-05-2012, 08:02 AM

I've contemplated suicide once in my life over a girl, very stupid I know; who in the end, cheated on me and treated me like trash.
Since then I've been thinking very similarly to you. Even brought a blue wig to show that I don't give a fuck what people think of me.

This was pretty inspiring... Thank you.
  
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Default 03-05-2012, 08:14 AM

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Not a very good post... quite pointless... pleas edit it and actually write something.

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I've contemplated suicide once in my life over a girl, very stupid I know; who in the end, cheated on me and treated me like trash.
Since then I've been thinking very similarly to you. Even brought a blue wig to show that I don't give a fuck what people think of me.

This was pretty inspiring... Thank you.
I have too, but then I thought... why would I want to end my one chance at life when I can change, make myself happy and live happily.
Sure, at the time you'll be in a depressed state in which you're thinking "there's no way out, I will be trapped in this state of mind forever and I'm going to die unhappy" but... you just need to overcome that to surpass it.

I'm glad you were inspired.


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Default 03-05-2012, 08:27 AM

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Not a very good post... quite pointless... pleas edit it and actually write something.



I have too, but then I thought... why would I want to end my one chance at life when I can change, make myself happy and live happily.
Sure, at the time you'll be in a depressed state in which you're thinking "there's no way out, I will be trapped in this state of mind forever and I'm going to die unhappy" but... you just need to overcome that to surpass it.

I'm glad you were inspired.

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Didn't i sayd , i deleted the message = ?#"&!#€/

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God you're quite annoying for a new person. I pasted the link, twice... within the space of 10 minutes. That's not spamming.

Please don't reply if you're not going to actually comment on the thread itself.


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Default 03-05-2012, 01:08 PM

I will admit, in my past I have attempted suicide around 4 times. Over depression, loneliness, etc. Lots of people don't find themselves perfect in there eyes mainly cause of there con's. Infact the girl I'm dating mentions all about her con's 24/7.. Just regular teenagers. But I get your point. Someone atleast needs someone to say they love them for there faults.


  
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Default 03-05-2012, 01:18 PM

this is what i repeat everytime in myself when i cross gangsters.


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Default 03-05-2012, 01:18 PM

I always had suicidal thoughts.
So I actually changed myself slightly for the best and have started seeing someone which has made me much happier.

Although despite that I do rarely self harm. Very stupid but I'm trying to stop.

Thanks for this George.





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Default 03-05-2012, 01:35 PM

Pretty decent thread. I was a mixture of both the first kind of person and second. However, I am one of those people who like to read things fully through before judging anything. I agreed with everything you said, life is what you make of it and you're only going to get one chance at it.
I'm sure you made people think about stuff with this thread, so you did your job I think.


  
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Default 03-05-2012, 02:28 PM

So tl;dr
Don't suicide over negative thoughts.
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