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Default Confused. - 06-05-2012, 10:17 PM

My girlfriends bestfriend has been mad alot at her because of the amount of time she spends with me. I myself do not think that she spends very much time at all with me and if anything spends more time with her. The more her bestfriend got mad the more time she spent with me until they barely talked. I kept telling my girlfriend that I want her to be happy and spend time with her bestfriend also, that i'd pay for whatever she wanted to do with her bestfriend, and even provide transportation and then leave so they could be alone. They finally decided to be friends again and they went to my girlfriends house today. Now my girlfriend is turning shit around on me and blaming all of the fights between her and her bestfriend on me and i'm just wondering, What the fuck just happened?

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Default 06-05-2012, 10:37 PM

Yah. Girls have a way with things.

Mean to them -> You're the best boyfriend ever.
Do good things for them -> You're the cause of everything that is evil.

I had a girlfriend where something similar happened like this. Meh. You just have to stick through it and try your best to fix it.
  
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Default 06-05-2012, 10:50 PM

I was even more confused last week when she dumped me because "We're both always sad". I had no idea what she was talking about, I thought I had the best relationship ever. When I asked my friends what they thought about it they agreed that they thought things were going perfect for me and her. It took an hour of begging, 10 minutes of crying, and threatening to show up at her house with flowers and beg for her back in person (Her dad doesn't like me is why I did that) for her to take me back. I was so confused.
  
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Default 06-05-2012, 10:55 PM

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I was even more confused last week when she dumped me because "We're both always sad". I had no idea what she was talking about, I thought I had the best relationship ever. When I asked my friends what they thought about it they agreed that they thought things were going perfect for me and her. It took an hour of begging, 10 minutes of crying, and threatening to show up at her house with flowers and beg for her back in person (Her dad doesn't like me is why I did that) for her to take me back. I was so confused.
Damn man. You're pretty strong if you're still putting up with that mess. It sounds like she can't make up her mind.

When girls are around other girls, their minds are manipulated into believing whatever the other girls say. I've seen it happen before. It's just a fact of life. No offense to the female population is meant by any of my posts here. But girls tend to go with what other girls believe.
  
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Default 06-05-2012, 10:58 PM

The same can be said by guys to bro. When we're around our bros our minds can be easily manipulated also.


The biggest thing I don't understand is when a chick says she loves you, but she doesn't want to give you another chance to prove that you love her. Even though I more than prove that I love her everyday.
  
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The same can be said by guys to bro. When we're around our bros our minds can be easily manipulated also.


The biggest thing I don't understand is when a chick says she loves you, but she doesn't want to give you another chance to prove that you love her. Even though I more than prove that I love her everyday.
Yeah man, I understand what you mean. You're right about guys being manipulated also.

Let's take this to VM, so we don't get infracted.
  
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Default 06-05-2012, 11:01 PM

I'm sorry, What's VM? xD
  
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Default 06-07-2012, 12:23 PM

Girls are confusing sometimes. Nobody understands why. But she'll get over it in a couple of days. Good luck.


  
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Default 06-11-2012, 03:25 AM

This explains everything:
  
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Default 06-11-2012, 12:01 PM

You have to talk to her bestfriend and talk things out. Make a weekly schedule or something to know when you can hang out with your girlfriend, and when the bestfriend can hang out with your girlfriend.


What is it that you are holding on to?
What will it matter when every history book is consumed in the flames?
Soon it will be like you never existed.
Not a single soul will remember your name.
  
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