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Default girl trouble /: - 07-03-2012, 06:52 PM

well im only 15 and im a virgin n all.. ive been daiting this girl . it will be 2 months tomorrow. anyway i went to her house 2 nights ago and we walked up to my friedns house. she is younger and i didnt know what to expect. but me n my friend had 2 girls with us and saw a oppurtunity. so i asked her for a handjob and she gave one. i guess thats long story short. (p.s. iwas also her first kiss, i've done everything except sex) so later that night she would'nt text me at all. so out of the blue i asked her if she even wanted to be with me. she replied "depends" i said "depends on what, cassie?" and she said "well i dont like to be pressured into things, but i want to be together for a while." what the hell? i didnt pressure her into shit. i have no idea what she means. please help.

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Default 07-03-2012, 06:52 PM

Maybe shes just nervous of what will happen next.
She mighta felt like she had to do what she did that night because if she didnt
She'd get made fun of or dumped sorta thing you know?
Just take it slow.. Its really hard for the first time for girls. We judge ourselfs alot.
And trust me I mean alot! Honestly just take it slow and she'll be more open about it.
You guys are still really young and shes being mature about it and now wanting to be a "skank"

It has nothing to do with you. Just in her own little way shes saying slow down sorta.



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Maybe shes just nervous of what will happen next.
She mighta felt like she had to do what she did that night because if she didnt
She'd get made fun of or dumped sorta thing you know?
Just take it slow.. Its really hard for the first time for girls. We judge ourselfs alot.
And trust me I mean alot! Honestly just take it slow and she'll be more open about it.
You guys are still really young and shes being mature about it and now wanting to be a "skank"

It has nothing to do with you. Just in her own little way shes saying slow down sorta.

i just remembered - she asked if i was gonna dump her if she didnt do it - and i said what my friend told me to say "no, but i reallly really want it" i feel so bad. i didn't want her to do anything she didnt want to do. i have never liked a girl as much as i like her.
  
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Default 07-03-2012, 06:59 PM

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i just remembered - she asked if i was gonna dump her if she didnt do it - and i said what my friend told me to say "no, but i reallly really want it" i feel so bad. i didn't want her to do anything she didnt want to do. i have never liked a girl as much as i like her.
Yeah see, Those words cut her to the heart. If it counts she really does like you.
She had the courage to do something she didnt wanna do because she was scared
to lose you. That has to say something.

But hun.. Be gentle with her. You guys are still young after all.
Dont rush things. It'll just cause regrets.
It should happen in the moment. When shes ready. Trust me..
She'll make the first move.



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Yeah see, Those words cut her to the heart. If it counts she really does like you.
She had the courage to do something she didnt wanna do because she was scared
to lose you. That has to say something.

But hun.. Be gentle with her. You guys are still young after all.
Dont rush things. It'll just cause regrets.
It should happen in the moment. When shes ready. Trust me..
She'll make the first move.

its just hard. because i like to kiss and stuff alot. and for these last 2 months. i have'nt barley been able to do that - we didnt kiss for first time until like last week because she was soooo scared and i was her first. and it wasnt like "making out" it was a little peck. and i just get bored of not doing anything. so like we were having fun messageing back and fourth on a ipad notepad right beside eachother at my friends house during a movie while him n his girl were messing around and i typed "im tired of never doing anything" and i think she got upset. maybe thats why she did what i asked her that night /: i feel so bad now.
  
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its just hard. because i like to kiss and stuff alot. and for these last 2 months. i have'nt barley been able to do that - we didnt kiss for first time until like last week because she was soooo scared and i was her first. and it wasnt like "making out" it was a little peck. and i just get bored of not doing anything. so like we were having fun messageing back and fourth on a ipad notepad right beside eachother at my friends house during a movie while him n his girl were messing around and i typed "im tired of never doing anything" and i think she got upset. maybe thats why she did what i asked her that night /: i feel so bad now.
Silly boys always thinkin with the wrong head.
If you just kissed her for the first time that night why would you try to go
for a homerun when you're not even on first base? Silly Silly.

Well stop thinking about that and focus on the relationship
Sex should be handed out. Its earned.
Now learn from your mistake before its too late and make it better.



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Silly boys always thinkin with the wrong head.
If you just kissed her for the first time that night why would you try to go
for a homerun when you're not even on first base? Silly Silly.

Well stop thinking about that and focus on the relationship
Sex should be handed out. Its earned.
Now learn from your mistake before its too late and make it better.

we didnt kiss for the first time that night. that was like the 4th time. but she is just soo shy. i dont likeee that. i mean i guess i wont have to worry about her cheating on me, but idk..
  
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Default 07-03-2012, 07:08 PM

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its just hard. because i like to kiss and stuff alot. and for these last 2 months. i have'nt barley been able to do that - we didnt kiss for first time until like last week because she was soooo scared and i was her first. and it wasnt like "making out" it was a little peck. and i just get bored of not doing anything. so like we were having fun messageing back and fourth on a ipad notepad right beside eachother at my friends house during a movie while him n his girl were messing around and i typed "im tired of never doing anything" and i think she got upset. maybe thats why she did what i asked her that night /: i feel so bad now.
It's been 2 months and you're 15; if sex is all you can think of, you're not ready for a real relationship.



  
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we didnt kiss for the first time that night. that was like the 4th time. but she is just soo shy. i dont likeee that. i mean i guess i wont have to worry about her cheating on me, but idk..
My opinion. She sounds like a keeper.
You'll be thankful when you're older that she isnt a skank.
Shes saving you from a lot of heartaches.



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My opinion. She sounds like a keeper.
You'll be thankful when you're older that she isnt a skank.
Shes saving you from a lot of heartaches.
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