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Default ._. - 08-02-2012, 06:31 AM

I need halp dumping a girl I have dated for about 3 months. She calls me at like 1:00 am, texts me "Hello my love" and reepy shit like that, and she followed me and my friends to my birthday party......
I've never been good about just saying "I don't like you. Go away"
Any advice on how to end this before I get raped in my sleep?




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@Gir @Brittany any other server I try to play they make fun of me because they have seen this post
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Default 08-02-2012, 06:33 AM

Do you still want her as a friend or are you like, naa I don't want her in my life anymore.

If It's the second, then just ignore her messages and ignore her everywhere.
She'll know you don't want anything with her, and she'll look for others.



  
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Default 08-02-2012, 06:33 AM

There's no easy way with breaking up with someone.
Just don't use any of the cheesy lines like "It's not you, it's me" or crap like that. And don't drag it on either. The longer you leave it, the harder it gets.

Try to go along the lines of "I need to talk to you, I don't think it's going to work out between us." And when you do break the news, try not to say "We can still be friends" as that can be a kick in the teeth.

I wish you luck.
  
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Default 08-02-2012, 06:42 AM

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Do you still want her as a friend or are you like, naa I don't want her in my life anymore.

If It's the second, then just ignore her messages and ignore her everywhere.
She'll know you don't want anything with her, and she'll look for others.
its number 2 for sure,
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There's no easy way with breaking up with someone.
Just don't use any of the cheesy lines like "It's not you, it's me" or crap like that. And don't drag it on either. The longer you leave it, the harder it gets.

Try to go along the lines of "I need to talk to you, I don't think it's going to work out between us." And when you do break the news, try not to say "We can still be friends" as that can be a kick in the teeth.

I wish you luck.
thanks aaron.




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Default 08-02-2012, 06:44 AM

Just tell her that she is way too attached, you might regret it thought
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Default 08-02-2012, 06:52 AM

Okay, so first of all. Let me clear some things up with you.

She calls you at 1 AM - Does she KNOW you're awake, or does she just randomly call you late at night?

If it's the latter, then it is kind of creepy. But if she knew you were awake, some girls think it's sweet. They want that to happen to them. Don't take it as "Creepy" if she knew you were awake at the time.

You've been dating here for three months. You obviously want her in your life. You obviously had feelings for her at one point or another. So don't say you want to drop her out of your life completely, because that's completely stupid. You'll end up regretting what you said to her and you'll be depressed for quite some time. Say you'd like to stay friends, at least you'll still be able to talk with her.

If you really want to tell her that you're not interested, make sure you're at least not willing to patch things up and tell her what she's doing that's making you think the thoughts of breaking up. Sit down with her and talk to her. Relationships are really the one thing that keep people together and let them get to know one another, so a talk isn't a bad thing. If something's wrong in a relationship, fix it. Don't end it right there. That's not how they're supposed to work out.

Seriously, if you don't like her, why did you even get together with her in the first place? Men and women are different in an emotional way. Women are more emotional when it comes to relationships (Most of the time) than men are. I'm not being sexist, but it's true. If you felt like it wasn't going to work out, you shouldn't have even thought about dating her.

In the long run, it's very difficult to break up with someone you've been with for a while. Just tell it to her straight, don't hold it off for as long as possible, because then it would become even harder for you to do it. Cut to the chase and tell her you don't like her anymore. It's normal nowadays, because idiots are too stupid to get in a relationship and not want to work things out if something goes wrong or something isn't right.




  
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Default 08-02-2012, 06:55 AM

If you like the person explain to her what she is doing which is annoying you etc.
If you want to get rid of her get it done quick, tell her its over.

If all fails murder the bitch!!



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Default 08-02-2012, 07:07 AM

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Okay, so first of all. Let me clear some things up with you.

She calls you at 1 AM - Does she KNOW you're awake, or does she just randomly call you late at night?

If it's the latter, then it is kind of creepy. But if she knew you were awake, some girls think it's sweet. They want that to happen to them. Don't take it as "Creepy" if she knew you were awake at the time.

You've been dating here for three months. You obviously want her in your life. You obviously had feelings for her at one point or another. So don't say you want to drop her out of your life completely, because that's completely stupid. You'll end up regretting what you said to her and you'll be depressed for quite some time. Say you'd like to stay friends, at least you'll still be able to talk with her.

If you really want to tell her that you're not interested, make sure you're at least not willing to patch things up and tell her what she's doing that's making you think the thoughts of breaking up. Sit down with her and talk to her. Relationships are really the one thing that keep people together and let them get to know one another, so a talk isn't a bad thing. If something's wrong in a relationship, fix it. Don't end it right there. That's not how they're supposed to work out.

Seriously, if you don't like her, why did you even get together with her in the first place? Men and women are different in an emotional way. Women are more emotional when it comes to relationships (Most of the time) than men are. I'm not being sexist, but it's true. If you felt like it wasn't going to work out, you shouldn't have even thought about dating her.

In the long run, it's very difficult to break up with someone you've been with for a while. Just tell it to her straight, don't hold it off for as long as possible, because then it would become even harder for you to do it. Cut to the chase and tell her you don't like her anymore. It's normal nowadays, because idiots are too stupid to get in a relationship and not want to work things out if something goes wrong or something isn't right.
Im asleep when she calls. She wasn't creepy when we started. I won't regret dropping her out of my life.




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Im asleep when she calls. She wasn't creepy when we started. I won't regret dropping her out of my life.
Then sit her down and tell her that she needs to stop doing what she's doing that's creeping you out. PATCH THE RELATIONSHIP. DO NOT end it because there's a flaw. There's ALWAYS a flaw in relationships. FIX it, don't BREAK it. TRUST me, please. I know the feeling and it's terrible. Just talk to her, which is normal. You know how married people don't get divorced right away? They sit down and fix things that are wrong in the relationship. How is she supposed to know you're not the kind of person that loves calls at 1 AM? She doesn't know it, and she won't know it unless you tell her.

EDIT: I, for one, would love calls randomly late at night. If it's from someone you like, or love, it's worth waking up for if they're thinking about you. She probably likes it, so she thinks you like it as well.




  
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Then sit her down and tell her that she needs to stop doing what she's doing that's creeping you out. PATCH THE RELATIONSHIP. DO NOT end it because there's a flaw. There's ALWAYS a flaw in relationships. FIX it, don't BREAK it. TRUST me, please. I know the feeling and it's terrible. Just talk to her, which is normal. You know how married people don't get divorced right away? They sit down and fix things that are wrong in the relationship. How is she supposed to know you're not the kind of person that loves calls at 1 AM? She doesn't know it, and she won't know it unless you tell her.
There's always the possibility that she already knows, yet continues to do it anyway.
  
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