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Default advice? - 08-02-2012, 06:44 PM

My life has been fucking horrible lately, from having the worst of luck, to getting cheated on by my ex it just fucking sucks. After my last break up I'm trying to find new women so recently I've been speaking to this girl named Bela. She actually someone I met over skype, but she's very pretty and i'm kinda thinking i'm falling back in love. I'm a real depressed guy sometimes, and it even results to meds at the time being. Well I was on the phone with her one night and forgot to turn the phone off once we said bye. I was really drunk, and getting cussed out and she heard me cry, and really feel that this might ruin alot of what's going on. Do you think she's gunna find me as a pussy now? Idk. It's a weird feeling please just give me an advice. [I'm not some suicidal faggot, but I was just really depressed at the moment.]


  
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Default 08-02-2012, 06:51 PM

You could just lie, say that it was other person like a little baby or something, if you can, at this moment you really thing you should do that so you can play safe, you don't need another fucked up moment in your live.
If that can not be done, tell her a part of the story, so you can explain what happened.
  
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Default 08-02-2012, 07:08 PM

Girls like guys that are honest and show emotions. A bit of crying is ok, if you were feeling shit don't worry about it, and if it's meant to happen it will happen.


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Default 08-02-2012, 07:13 PM

Be honest to her, that's the best advice i can give u.





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Default 08-02-2012, 07:20 PM

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My life has been fucking horrible lately, from having the worst of luck, to getting cheated on by my ex it just fucking sucks. After my last break up I'm trying to find new women so recently I've been speaking to this girl named Bela. She actually someone I met over skype, but she's very pretty and i'm kinda thinking i'm falling back in love. I'm a real depressed guy sometimes, and it even results to meds at the time being. Well I was on the phone with her one night and forgot to turn the phone off once we said bye. I was really drunk, and getting cussed out and she heard me cry, and really feel that this might ruin alot of what's going on. Do you think she's gunna find me as a pussy now? Idk. It's a weird feeling please just give me an advice. [I'm not some suicidal faggot, but I was just really depressed at the moment.]
If it's you're ex, it's not cheating.


  
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Default 08-02-2012, 07:21 PM

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If it's you're ex, it's not cheating.
His now-ex I would assume, after she cheated on him.
Anyways don't worry bout it bro if she doesn't talk to you anymore because she heard you cry she wasn't worth it.


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Default 08-02-2012, 07:24 PM

do you think that she is going to think your a pussy for crying? God no.

it's never a good idea to bottle up emotions as it would make you feel worse than you already do (belive me i know). Most girls like guys who are honest and show their true emotions. if they don't then somethings not right. Crying doesn't make anyone a pussy, it's an emotion that everyone has. Hell even tough guys have cried at least once or more in their life. Do not lie about it, it will just make things worse for you and to be honest you don't want that. If she thinks your a pussy for crying then she isn't the kind of girl you want.

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Default 08-03-2012, 02:55 AM

Here's a few bits of advice that I suggest you should follow:

#1 - Get off whatever medication it is that you're taking. You're not you when you take it.

#2 - You're not falling in love. You're seeking companionship because you're not used to being alone any more. That being said, you're subconsciously willing to convince yourself of absolutely anything so you don't have to be alone. Date this girl if you must, but understand that you are NOT in love or even close to it.

#3 - People cry, you're in a bad place, it's understandable. If she doesn't accept that, I suggest you find yourself another girl to invest your time in. I cried on more than one occasion with my ex. You'll soon realise that there will be plenty of opportunities to, prove your manliness, for lack of a better word.




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Default 08-03-2012, 03:35 AM

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Here's a few bits of advice that I suggest you should follow:

#1 - Get off whatever medication it is that you're taking. You're not you when you take it.

#2 - You're not falling in love. You're seeking companionship because you're not used to being alone any more. That being said, you're subconsciously willing to convince yourself of absolutely anything so you don't have to be alone. Date this girl if you must, but understand that you are NOT in love or even close to it.

#3 - People cry, you're in a bad place, it's understandable. If she doesn't accept that, I suggest you find yourself another girl to invest your time in. I cried on more than one occasion with my ex. You'll soon realise that there will be plenty of opportunities to, prove your manliness, for lack of a better word.
Damn, couldn't have said it better myself. Also I would like to add that it has been too soon since your last break up, your no where near the mental health you should be at, give dating a rest for about 3 months or until your ready to move on, don't commit to a relationship to soon because youe only going to be hurting your partner in the process.


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Default 08-03-2012, 03:42 AM

Girls like guys who cry. Don't try to be a badass or some shit, girls don't like that.


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