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Default relationships, etc. - 08-21-2012, 10:22 PM

Please, no trolls or rude answers.

I've always sucked with women, but I'm starting to get a little better. Sometimes, it just frustrates me when a girl asks about my past relationships, etc, and there isn't much I can say because I have always been a step behind.

For example, I was texting this girl one day, and she asked to play 20 questions. At first, she asked me "have you ever smoked". I said yes. Then the other person would answer the same question. We did this for a bit, but then she asked me "How many girlfriends have you had?". I felt my face get extremely red because I knew the answer would take her aback.

"0" was all I texted back. It was the most embarrassing thing ever, but I wasn't going to lie to her. She was like "really? I'm surprised" or something of the sort. It really frustrates me when I'm trying to put my past failures with girls behind me and it always has to come up with my current relationships.

I'm not really asking for advice, just sort of venting, so sorry if this is the wrong section.
  
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Default 08-21-2012, 10:25 PM

She probably said she was surprised to try to compliment you. Like "Oh really? You're attractive so I am surprised."

Teenagers tend to exaggerate the amount of times they've had sex or how many bfs/gfs they've had. Don't worry about it.
  
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Default 08-21-2012, 10:30 PM

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She probably said she was surprised to try to compliment you. Like "Oh really? You're attractive so I am surprised."

Teenagers tend to exaggerate the amount of times they've had sex or how many bfs/gfs they've had. Don't worry about it.
I thought of that, yeah. It's just frustrating when a girl may place an expectation on me because of what she predetermines about my past.

For example, if I told you I was the captain of the football team, 6 foot 2 and pretty ripped, you may naturally expect that I have had experience with women. Otherwise, you would assume a fault exists in my personality or that something of the sort that is holding me back. Again, this was just an example.
  
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Default 08-21-2012, 10:46 PM

it's good that you're honest with her, if you really like her keep it that way. But make sure you find out how she feels about you, it sucks falling in love with someone to find out they've been leading you on.


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Default 08-21-2012, 10:55 PM

No one is that honest now a days, and I'm sure she will take it in a positive way

It's ur first time, and that's normal, you will learn with the years.

Just be good with her and make her laugh, That's the trick



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Default 08-22-2012, 04:39 AM

There are very few women that are impressed when a man tells them that they have had a certain amount of partners. Don't worry about it too much, I've not had many partners but they've all been for long periods of time. I think it takes more effort to keep a relationship going than to meet many people.




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Default 08-22-2012, 05:50 AM

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Please, no trolls or rude answers.

I've always sucked with women, but I'm starting to get a little better. Sometimes, it just frustrates me when a girl asks about my past relationships, etc, and there isn't much I can say because I have always been a step behind.

For example, I was texting this girl one day, and she asked to play 20 questions. At first, she asked me "have you ever smoked". I said yes. Then the other person would answer the same question. We did this for a bit, but then she asked me "How many girlfriends have you had?". I felt my face get extremely red because I knew the answer would take her aback.

"0" was all I texted back. It was the most embarrassing thing ever, but I wasn't going to lie to her. She was like "really? I'm surprised" or something of the sort. It really frustrates me when I'm trying to put my past failures with girls behind me and it always has to come up with my current relationships.

I'm not really asking for advice, just sort of venting, so sorry if this is the wrong section.
Well I'm sure any girl who is someone's first girl will for one be forgiving with any mishaps, and secondly be glad you choose them to be your first girl... or girl in interest.

having a low amount before is something to be pround of, not ashamed.
It shows them that your not out there hunting for sex or what ever, but most likely rather for a relationship.

All i can say is good luck with any future flirting, girls and girlfriends.
Also you need to be more confident, can't offer nay advice on that, you'll have to find your own reasons for it to be worth anything.


  
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Default 08-22-2012, 05:56 AM

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Please, no trolls or rude answers.

I've always sucked with women, but I'm starting to get a little better. Sometimes, it just frustrates me when a girl asks about my past relationships, etc, and there isn't much I can say because I have always been a step behind.

For example, I was texting this girl one day, and she asked to play 20 questions. At first, she asked me "have you ever smoked". I said yes. Then the other person would answer the same question. We did this for a bit, but then she asked me "How many girlfriends have you had?". I felt my face get extremely red because I knew the answer would take her aback.

"0" was all I texted back. It was the most embarrassing thing ever, but I wasn't going to lie to her. She was like "really? I'm surprised" or something of the sort. It really frustrates me when I'm trying to put my past failures with girls behind me and it always has to come up with my current relationships.

I'm not really asking for advice, just sort of venting, so sorry if this is the wrong section.
I had same feeling before my first gf.. SO it's normal. Everyone is starting from 0. Good luck in the future.


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Default 08-22-2012, 06:04 AM

Bro, If the girl has even a bit of intelligence she doesn't give a fuck about how much girlfriends you have had.

She also texted back that she was suprised so that means she's positive about you.


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Default 08-22-2012, 08:04 AM

Thanks for the advice guys. This happened awhile ago and it was just brought back to my memory because that same girl messaged me again. Honestly, now that I think about it, it's more shameful to admit these sentiments to a male friend rather than a female counterpart. There's way too much pressure these days in the male community to "get some", which pisses me off.
  
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