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Default Feeling kinda depressed - 01-08-2013, 02:12 PM

This is a serious thread, if you ain't got something useful to say, fuck off.

So, lately i've been getting like a weird feeling..
I'm not ill or anything but i miss something.
I've had this girl in around the summer when we went on some dates and stuff it was really nice.
But she had a boyfriend.
She said she fighted all the time with him so i expected for them to break up eventually.
Well it did not.
So after a few dates we had i woke up and she had in her BBM name that she was with that guy again.
So i asked what was wrong with her and didn't wanted to see her anymore until she made a decision.
I don't know but, i never been in tears after that..
Like a month after that we kinda been chatting each other again, went pretty nice and all.
So we went to the beach together and it was really fun.
But than again, i lost my trust and faith in her because of the first time what she did to me.
So we never speaked each other until a few weeks ago, she hit me up again.
And again, i kinda gotten a crush on her.
We went on a date again.... And again it was really good.
But yet again i lost my faith and trust, so i told her i just want to be good friends like we used to be because i don't really trust it.

Anyways, i just wanted to tell that story.
Had to let it go off my heart.
I was really in love back than, and i'm missing it..
But i can't go back to her. My mom warned me like 2 times already i can't trust her.
There are some girls now and there but i don't find them like attracting.
And i don't want to search desperate for love but i'm missing it..
We didn't even had a relationship. /:

I just don't know what to do..
I don't want to go back to her.
And this feelings suck.

Anyone of you reading this ever experienced this?
If so, what did you do?
Or do you have any advice for me?
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Default 01-08-2013, 02:19 PM

Just stop messing around with her mate if she is going to fuck with you all the time, she could be even doing it to get payback on that guy. Just take my advice and do not talk to her again, find another woman with better respect. If this is what you was not looking for then just tell me. Hope it helped.




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Default 01-08-2013, 02:19 PM

If you can't trust her, she isn't worth it.
I know it sucks, but you have to let go and find other people. Don't worry I'm sure you will find a girl you can trust and be much happier.


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Default 01-08-2013, 02:24 PM

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Just stop messing around with her mate if she is going to fuck with you all the time, she could be even doing it to get payback on that guy. Just take my advice and do not talk to her again, find another woman with better respect. If this is what you was not looking for then just tell me. Hope it helped.
She is done with him for like 3 months now.
He threatened her and shit..
Thanks for the advice though.

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If you can't trust her, she isn't worth it.
I know it sucks, but you have to let go and find other people. Don't worry I'm sure you will find a girl you can trust and be much happier.
I know but it's hard..
I hate to randomly fall in love with someone i don't know.
This girl, i know her before we dated for like a year.
We were really good friends.
And when we were dating she actually told me she had a crush on me for a couple months already when she didn't told me anything.
  
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Default 01-08-2013, 02:29 PM

To be fair, it kind of sounds like your jumped the gun a little bit and presumed a little to much...
Maybe she only ever liked you as a friends and you were convincing yourself that when things were off with her BF that you had a chance because you like her yourself?

I'm being presumptuous myself here.


  
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Default 01-08-2013, 02:35 PM

Alright well first of all. Good on ya for talking to your parents about it. Most people these days, myself included find it hard to talk to parents about this stuff. They know what's best for you man, follow their advice.
But seeing as you came here for advice I would tell you to let it go. She was cheating on her boyfriend with you, chances are if you got involved with her she'd cheat on you too. This is probably not because she's a cock-hungry slut, she probably just doesn't know how to break it off with a person well.
You'll find someone better man. I've been in a similar situation before and it sucks so bad for a while, but it gets better. My advice for you to move on would be to hang out with your good friends, and spend time with em, really talk to them and have them be supportive of you, and when you feel ready, try starting something with another girl.





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Default 01-08-2013, 02:39 PM

I've been in that same very cycle. It's fucking brutal.
I've just been registered for psychological therapy through my doctor for the amount of shit it put my head through (2 years of putting up with her bullshit before finally tossing her out[Not sole reason for therapy, but doesn't help at all]). If she's anything like the "girl" I tried to get with, you'll get rid of her the first chance you get. Seriously.

But on the off chance she just doesn't know how to break up with people so well, or doesn't want people to get hurt, then she needs to grow a pair (metaphorically of course) and make up her mind about it. Just give her the message that you aren't waiting forever, that is if you're still chasing her.
  
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Default 01-08-2013, 02:41 PM

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To be fair, it kind of sounds like your jumped the gun a little bit and presumed a little to much...
Maybe she only ever liked you as a friends and you were convincing yourself that when things were off with her BF that you had a chance because you like her yourself?

I'm being presumptuous myself here.
When i told her i like her as more than a friend she said she liked me either way as more than a friend..

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Alright well first of all. Good on ya for talking to your parents about it. Most people these days, myself included find it hard to talk to parents about this stuff. They know what's best for you man, follow their advice.
But seeing as you came here for advice I would tell you to let it go. She was cheating on her boyfriend with you, chances are if you got involved with her she'd cheat on you too. This is probably not because she's a cock-hungry slut, she probably just doesn't know how to break it off with a person well.
You'll find someone better man. I've been in a similar situation before and it sucks so bad for a while, but it gets better. My advice for you to move on would be to hang out with your good friends, and spend time with em, really talk to them and have them be supportive of you, and when you feel ready, try starting something with another girl.
The first few sentences got me..
I should talk with my parents about this, they know me even better than i know myself.
Thanks both.
  
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Default 01-08-2013, 02:44 PM

You guys went on dates while she had a boyfriend?

From my perspective, she's walking all over you. Forget about her, if she's deciding when and how you'll communicate, you'll never end on good terms. To her, you're only visible to her when she needs/wants you.


Or maybe I just interpreted your post incorrectly, but there's my honest opinion.
  
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Default 01-08-2013, 02:52 PM

2 things, don't talk to her. The guy's gonna come and be jealous as fuck, and come straight for you. FORGET HER.
  
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