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Default When should I use "the l word"? - 05-05-2013, 07:12 AM

I've been dating a girl, Mackenzie, since April 12th. I feel like I've fallen in love with her. I haven't felt like this since Cassee passed away, and I loved Cassee up until the day she died. Heres the thing, Kenzie is 4 years younger than me (she's 17). How long should I wait before telling her?



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Default 05-05-2013, 07:19 AM

As soon as possible. Truth is important, she will trust you more.




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Till she's 18.
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Default 05-05-2013, 09:43 AM

ugh, the two answers are the exact two things I'm stuck between. I was with her last night at her house, and I wanted to tell her, but I bit my tongue in fear of her reaction. She's only 17, and I'm not worried because she's a minor, but because of what her maturity level will be at 17.



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Default 05-05-2013, 09:49 AM

When you're absolutely positive that you're in love with her. If you truly feel that way towards her, might as well let her know sooner than later.
  
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Default 05-05-2013, 10:07 AM

Don't tell her now. Tell her when you both feel ready. Here's a hint:



Don't concentrate on WHEN you should tell her or how or whatever you're THINKING about or you'll miss all the fun with a girl you like. It's a matter of feeling, not questioning/thinking. You'll know you're ready when you both feel ready. Trust me, you'll sense if she's ready.




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Default 05-17-2013, 08:32 PM

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As soon as possible. Truth is important, she will trust you more.
Saying the L word can chase a girl away. Love is a strong feeling, and it's a strong committment.

Don't say it until you're 100% sure you two are going to last.

You don't love her yet. You like the idea of her.

Love is a feeling you won't ever be able to understand or describe, but you will for sure know it when it happens...



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Default 05-17-2013, 08:38 PM

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I've been dating a girl, Mackenzie, since April 12th. I feel like I've fallen in love with her. I haven't felt like this since Cassee passed away, and I loved Cassee up until the day she died. Heres the thing, Kenzie is 4 years younger than me (she's 17). How long should I wait before telling her?
1 Month isn't love... 1 month means nothing has gone bad within this one month to make you reconsider your relationship. You're going to have to wait a long time to figure out whether you're just into her for the relationship (which feels like love) or if you actually love her.

Give it some time, and like Brittany said, saying it too soon can drive her away as fast as you can blink. In most situations the guy gets too attached first, leaving the girl worried because she just likes the guy at that point, nothing more.


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Saying the L word can chase a girl away. Love is a strong feeling, and it's a strong committment.

Don't say it until you're 100% sure you two are going to last.

You don't love her yet. You like the idea of her.

Love is a feeling you won't ever be able to understand or describe, but you will for sure know it when it happens...
what you said at the end is 100% the truth.


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