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Default D00k needs help :( - 08-14-2010, 07:50 PM

Well.
To begin with, if you give me some advice similar to this; ''Dude! Just tell her what you feel!''
This; ''Go with what you feel is right, follow your heart''

I'll consider it spam, and your post will be completely ignored.

Now, here's the problem, I was off at boot camp, while my girlfriend was staying at home with her parents.
During my week at boot camp, I had SO much fun, I felt at home, free to do what ever I like.
I slept well each night, I got up in the mornings, did my duty and got an A grade (For those of you who don't understand how bootcamp work's, it means that I'd be accepted into the military without having to take all the tests.)

Before shit hit the fan with my girl, I had an idea of what I was going to do, which was enroll in the military.
Now that she's pregnant, I dont think I can anymore.

When I got back from bootcamp, I haven't slept well, (It's 5am right now.) I haven't been eating right, I feel like shit all the time.
So here's where I need the help, Is it because of her, or is it because I have a lot to think about, and a lot of responsibilty.

For your information, I love her, a lot, I miss her when Im not too busy thinking about military duty (at boot camp, I only thought about her before I fell asleep.)

I've got this school year to decide what to do, she'll be staying with her parents, they'll be supporting her untill I graduate.
I really could use all the fucking advice I can get, because Im going fucking crazy.
-Alexi.




  
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Default 08-14-2010, 07:53 PM

well it is up to you. If you really like her take her back. (mainly cause i dont date girls twice, they turn out 10x crazier and bitchier.
  
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Default 08-14-2010, 07:55 PM

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well it is up to you. If you really like her take her back. (mainly cause i dont date girls twice, they turn out 10x crazier and bitchier.
I haven't dumped her, she graduated 3 years ago.
I haven't.
She thought I should be able to finish school, and take the time to think about it.




  
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Default 08-14-2010, 07:55 PM

Broooo, It's just stress your thinking about it to much, DON'T join the army when your Gf is pregnant ! JESUS CHRIST
wait until the child is like 10.

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Default 08-14-2010, 07:57 PM

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Broooo, It's just stress your thinking about it to much, DON'T join the army when your Gf is pregnant ! JESUS CHRIST
wait until the child is like 10.

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Think smart one, what am I supposed support us with, when I don't have a uni/ college education?
How many jobs would be available to me, where the pay is reasonable, without having a degree in something?




  
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Default 08-14-2010, 07:57 PM

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Well.
To begin with, if you give me some advice similar to this; ''Dude! Just tell her what you feel!''
This; ''Go with what you feel is right, follow your heart''

I'll consider it spam, and your post will be completely ignored.

Now, here's the problem, I was off at boot camp, while my girlfriend was staying at home with her parents.
During my week at boot camp, I had SO much fun, I felt at home, free to do what ever I like.
I slept well each night, I got up in the mornings, did my duty and got an A grade (For those of you who don't understand how bootcamp work's, it means that I'd be accepted into the military without having to take all the tests.)

Before shit hit the fan with my girl, I had an idea of what I was going to do, which was enroll in the military.
Now that she's pregnant, I dont think I can anymore.

When I got back from bootcamp, I haven't slept well, (It's 5am right now.) I haven't been eating right, I feel like shit all the time.
So here's where I need the help, Is it because of her, or is it because I have a lot to think about, and a lot of responsibilty.

For your information, I love her, a lot, I miss her when Im not too busy thinking about military duty (at boot camp, I only thought about her before I fell asleep.)

I've got this school year to decide what to do, she'll be staying with her parents, they'll be supporting her untill I graduate.
I really could use all the fucking advice I can get, because Im going fucking crazy.
-Alexi.
Maybe I'm not the right person to give advices but I'll try....

First of all, put your font bigger because I just fucking killed my eyes reading this, but I read it cuz I care about you.

Second, you got another year of school to think about it, and the baby is gonna show up during the school year probably, so maybe you should see how much you like being a dad and then decide what to do...

As for the time missing to see her well life's a bitch you know, if you can't get any more free time, then just enjoy every second with her and keep in mind you're lucky to have her..

Hope that helped you dude.

BTW: For your stress, calm down, you got like 9-10 months to think about it, take a chill pill?


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Default 08-14-2010, 07:59 PM

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Broooo, It's just stress your thinking about it to much, DON'T join the army when your Gf is pregnant ! JESUS CHRIST
wait until the child is like 10.

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oh thats what it was about XD i thought she cheated on him. Stay home and be with you're baby, from all the people wanting to see their child in the army its sad, plus you might need to use the advice above if you do
  
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Default 08-14-2010, 08:01 PM

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Maybe I'm not the right person to give advices but I'll try....

First of all, put your font bigger because I just fucking killed my eyes reading this, but I read it cuz I care about you.

Second, you got another year of school to think about it, and the baby is gonna show up during the school year probably, so maybe you should see how much you like being a dad and then decide what to do...

As for the time missing to see her well life's a bitch you know, if you can't get any more free time, then just enjoy every second with her and keep in mind you're lucky to have her..

Hope that helped you dude.

BTW: For your stress, calm down, you got like 9-10 months to think about it, take a chill pill?
This was useful, thank you Phil.
I'll change my font now :P




  
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Default 08-14-2010, 08:06 PM

If you love her than you could enlist in the military, If either of your parents/friends would take you in for a little while, I know that my mother and father weren't very rich people, my dad drove semi trucks, and my mom was in the military (air force) but the military really helped, and once my dad became disabled he became a stay at home dad. So my mom was a lab tech in the air force(You probably want to be a soldier, just assuming) We lived in a trailer for a long time, until they had enough for a decent house, the promotions, and salaries just started going up and up, now We are a decently wealthy family and my mom is retired at the age of 38. So The military is a fine way to go, if you don't see her all the time I think she will understand. You could even both get jobs and leave your child with your girlfriends parents or something while you guys worked. Hope I sorta helped.


  
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If you love her than you could enlist in the military, If either of your parents/friends would take you in for a little while, I know that my mother and father weren't very rich people, my dad drove semi trucks, and my mom was in the military (air force) but the military really helped, and once my dad became disabled he became a stay at home dad. So my mom was a lab tech in the air force(You probably want to be a soldier, just assuming) We lived in a trailer for a long time, until they had enough for a decent house, the promotions, and salaries just started going up and up, now We are a decently wealthy family and my mom is retired at the age of 38. So The military is a fine way to go, if you don't see her all the time I think she will understand. You could even both get jobs and leave your child with your girlfriends parents or something while you guys worked. Hope I sorta helped.
It did, that's why it's hard for me to choose, because the Swedish goverment is pretty friendly, (Pretty much Social demokrat) so it's not like any of us are in real deep shit.
Thing is I think in the long run, choosing the military might not be too good, I've thought about (and been reccomended) the ''Special styrka'' (a.k.a special forces.)
The first three years, I'd only have 5 days a month free, the rest training.
I think that she might need be the most those first years, but she doesn't want to rely on her parents, and well... I dont even want to start talking about mine.




  
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