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Unhappy Never had a girlfriend. its time to change. help? - 09-21-2010, 01:38 AM

Hey guys, before i go any further i just want to say i really appriciate everyone on the forums, you all have been soo helpful latley. Alright, im shure most of you have seen me around or talked to me on the forums, but im going to be honest, ive never had a girlfriend, kissed a girl or even asked a girl out. Its my freshman yr of high school and i am starting to make friends ( i didnt know anybody 2 weeks ago lol) but, since im in high school i really really want a girlfriend, all my old friends had them and idc about them or there deal but ik its normal or w.e
but im not afraid to say it. Idk what to do, im trying to come out of my box and get one but its so hard, ik i have to ask a girl out sooner or later, im just a bit afraid not really of rejection, b/c the worst thing they could say is no but im a bit nervous of there friends and me getting a bad rep. (i really wish girls were more respectfull at times too) but anyways, ya, please comment saying how ur first girlfriend went down or what u did to change or sumthing
anyways
thanks again
btw, its also my 15th birthday so, im not getting younger


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Default 09-21-2010, 01:44 AM

Just be yourself, really.

If you act confident in who you are and what you are, you'll be like a beacon of awesome, trust me.

Don't be afraid of a little rejection, it's pretty much par for the course in highschool and all of life.

Either way, act how you want to act and be who you want to be, and you'll get by nicely.
  
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Default 09-21-2010, 01:53 AM

The thing is after you break up you will always remember her as she was your first love, and it hurts sometimes




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Default 09-21-2010, 02:14 AM

I love how they call them your; "High school sweetheart", yet, most of the girls in high school are mean D:<

Yeah, as Lodece said, you'll always remember them, so go after someone that you REALLY like, and you think you'd appreciate them and respect them for who they are. Try not to lie to them about who you are, because, eventually, they'll find out. You can't hide the truth forever.

Also, don't move away from them, because they'll eventually cheat on you. xD
  
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Default 09-21-2010, 02:53 AM

Be your self.
The best thing you can do is really be confident in what you say and don't muck around your words and look like a douche, if you try to hard it will show and every girl with think your a freak.
so be carful.
  
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Default 09-21-2010, 05:38 AM

FYI:
DO NOT pick a really hot girl as there is 60% more chance of cheating.




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Default 09-21-2010, 05:48 AM

Like someone said,
Be yourself dont act like someone else
just to be cool


  
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Default 09-21-2010, 06:08 AM

Just relax, it'll come.
  
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Default 09-21-2010, 06:27 AM

All I can say is what's already been said, Just be yourself, And The best thing I suggest to do, if meet some girls who you perhaps like, add them on msn or whatever, and give a bit of subtle flirting, if they flirt back, then you move on to more advanced flirting, if they flirt back, you're sure they like you.
I respect the fact that you have the courage to say that you've never had a girlfriend, and if you have the courage to do that, then you'll have the courage to ask a girl out! So get out there, and start meeting girls

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Default 09-23-2010, 01:38 PM

Main rules:

Don't set the bar too low, you'll trip over it.

Don't set the bar too high, 'cause you know you can't reach it.

It's harsh, but it's life my friend.




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