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Default "friends with benefits" - 09-22-2010, 03:30 PM

I was in a 2 year relationship with a girl, she stole my heart. We ended up breaking about 3 months ago. I loved that girl honestly, but all we ever did was have sex. I miss her, but all the love and affection was gone after the first 1 1/2. But since then I have gone down the drain, I've had a "FWB" for the past 3 months. Honestly I can say that so far it's worked better than having a relationship. But I want to be with this girl, but I dont know how to say it to her. Before we did anything, she asked me what I wanted and I said just a fwb, and Now I've changed my mind and I dont know if she feels the same. How do I know if its just sex that she wants, or a relationship? Any help would be appreciated..


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Default 09-22-2010, 06:42 PM

Ask her how she feels about her.
  
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Default 09-22-2010, 06:49 PM

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Ask her how she feels about her.
LOL,
what?
you mean about him?? :S


&& idk, just be honest with her..
  
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Default 09-22-2010, 07:37 PM

Be hones with her and try to do that what you want your-self. If you wish to have relationship - say her so. I think you should not afraid to say you'r feeling to anyone else.
I may be wrone, but thats my point


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Default 09-22-2010, 07:39 PM

you make some random threads but they are pretty interesting to read :s



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Default 09-23-2010, 02:52 PM

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you make some random threads but they are pretty interesting to read :s
Baha, when I get stoned I like to talk about random shit.

But on the real, thanks guys. I still dont know how to approach her, because I mean she specifically said she was just looking for sex.. I was at the time too so I agreed. But it's turned into a lot more, and I'm afraid that i'm gonna see her flirting or something one of these days and get pissed about it.. I'm gonna try to talk to her tomorrow, thanks for the help.


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Default 09-27-2010, 11:51 AM

Dunno if this is a bit late but erm, dude you don't really have a choice..
Like you said you dont wanna see her flirt with someone else & if you tell her the worst thing is..
You'll stop having sex with her all the time.. Just sit down with her & have a talk..

If you really care about this girl, risking for a better chance is worth it. Than watching her fall in love with another guy, best of luck.
  
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Default 09-27-2010, 11:59 AM

It's quite simple.

You ask.

You never learn anything with out asking.



Sometimes we just need a friend.
Someone to hold us when you can't stand.
Sometimes even to pretend like you matter for that split second that everything seems to be crashing down.
And sometimes it's just easier to say goodbye.

  
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Default 10-01-2010, 03:20 PM

I assume fwb is just sex, like a fuck friend of a sort?

idk.
  
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Default 10-04-2010, 12:15 PM

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I assume fwb is just sex, like a fuck friend of a sort?

idk.
Yep.
And I brought it up 2 days ago, and well let me put it like this - She's not talkin to anybody else right now, and neither am I She said she felt the same way towards me, and she was scared to tell me.. So the feelings have been mutual all along. I'm really diggin this girl! I really think things are gonna work out with me and her. We made the decision to just keep hanging out and see how things go, but I plan on asking her to be my girl either this week or next week. thanks for the advice peoples, I appreciate it!


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