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Default not sure what to do. - 10-26-2010, 07:44 PM

hey guy's i just need alittle advice on some relationship shit. if their is anyone in a long term relationship, i could really use your help.

Okay so it started off in march of this year, i started dating this amazing girl, she is just all around amazing, my friend is having a party this saturday but she is out of town, and i am starting to get feelings for a good friend who i have known for 5 year's, and we are going to the party as "just friends" but i want to become more than "just friends" with this girl, i am starting to loose feelings for my girlfriend, but she still loves me, i am really confused on this whole situation, if anyone could point me in the right direction that would be the biggest help, i just dont know what to do right now, i dont want to mess up a great relationship, and i dont wanna mess up a good friendship, its just so damn hard.

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Default 10-27-2010, 12:38 AM

Oh dear god.
Im in a long term relationship right now, and I've felt like wavering a few times before, you just got to say fuck it and ignore those feelings, they tend to pass after a while.

Three years ago I was together with a girl called Christine, we we're together for 5-6 months, I wen't out one weekend without her, felt the same way you feel now and I cheated on her.
The next day I told her and broke up with her, she still wont talk to me, and for nearly a whole year I couldn't forgive myself, nor could I stop thinking about it.

So yeah, suck it up, ignore those feelings, because it's merely doubt, the pressure of a serious relationship can be quite a lot sometimes.




  
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Default 10-27-2010, 01:48 AM

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Oh dear god.
Im in a long term relationship right now, and I've felt like wavering a few times before, you just got to say fuck it and ignore those feelings, they tend to pass after a while.

Three years ago I was together with a girl called Christine, we we're together for 5-6 months, I wen't out one weekend without her, felt the same way you feel now and I cheated on her.
The next day I told her and broke up with her, she still wont talk to me, and for nearly a whole year I couldn't forgive myself, nor could I stop thinking about it.

So yeah, suck it up, ignore those feelings, because it's merely doubt, the pressure of a serious relationship can be quite a lot sometimes.
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Default 10-27-2010, 02:38 AM

I'd say stick with your girlfriend, don't break her heart - she doesn't deserve it because you are having feelings with your "friend", I'd say try to ignore the feelings like Duck said.
  
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Default 11-01-2010, 12:55 PM

I'm in exactly the same situation right now i told my girlfriend 2 days ago how i feld and i said i needed time to think i'm together with my girlfriend for over 2 years now at this same moment i miss her alot and i think i made up my mind. If ur girlfriend truly loves u she will give u the time u need to think but then u can't have contact with her for a coupel days then u start to realize what u are missing it won't be fun to say that to her that u need time because u have doubts just take ur time to think about it who do u love the most ur girlfriend who loves u more then anyone or a girl u know but u don't even know if she loves u?

I hope this advise helped u cuz it certainly helped me alot i start to realize why i love my girlfriend and that she loves me to

Good luck with it i hope it will be a happy ending but if u follow ur heart it will always be a happy ending

Greet Riu!!!
  
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Default 11-02-2010, 02:27 AM

This sounds exactly like what happened to me. I'll tell you my story, hopefully it'll steer you away from the shit I put myself through.

1) I became really good friends with two girls.

2) After like 6 months I started going out with one after the other started telling me "no you're like a brother to me, I couldn't do that with you etc"

3) The whole time I was far closer to my best friend, would've much rather gone out with her. Loved her so much more but I couldn't tell her my true feelings because I didn't want to ruin what we had.

4) One night my best friend let slip that she loved me. The next day I broke up with my girlfriend to go out with the other. We didn't go out straight away because she didn't want it to look like I'd dumped my girlfriend because of her.

5) I never ended up going out with my best friend, we got close but I went away for a week about 3 weeks after I broke up with my girlfriend. After that she just didn't talk to me, even though I tried to talk to her.

6) 15 minutes ago one of my best mates (guy) told me my (ex) best friend was talking shit about "how similar I was to my ex" and how we deserved each other and shit so I go on FaceBook and tell her she's so full of shit and to go fuck herself. Blocked deleted. End of story.

Moral: Don't go out with your best friend.

---------- Post added at 10:27 PM ---------- Previous post was at 10:25 PM ----------

Btw I don't talk to either now. Thank god I'm at the end of my last year of high school.
  
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