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Default 'Seeing' - 12-14-2010, 01:25 PM

Okay, I'm 'seeing' a girl, but it's like a serious seeing thing apart from the fact that we've keep it on a down low and only told a couple of people...

She went to Berlin on thursday and got back last night... She's been sick since saturday and I was supposed to see her tonight but she's too ill and is sleeping; we've re-scheduled to meet up on thursday.

I'm not sure what to say/do while she's ill? I've said I hope she gets better soon and stuff but I feel a little isolated as if I'm not much help...
What can I do to make her realise I care?

Things I won't do:
Take her flowers or chocolates... I'm scared, k? Tar.


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Default 12-14-2010, 01:31 PM

Go for the obvious.

If you care about her, make her feel better.

Do whatever it takes to make her smile.

Make her soup... bring her something... a teddy bear... flowers...

Man up Pog.



Sometimes we just need a friend.
Someone to hold us when you can't stand.
Sometimes even to pretend like you matter for that split second that everything seems to be crashing down.
And sometimes it's just easier to say goodbye.

  
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Default 12-14-2010, 01:46 PM

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Go for the obvious.

If you care about her, make her feel better.

Do whatever it takes to make her smile.

Make her soup... bring her something... a teddy bear... flowers...

Man up Pog.
^.^,
I'm only 'seeing' her though, here in the UK we're less confident as a nation than US...
In america you guys can walk up to someone you've winked at and ask them out, here it takes weeks of chatting for it to seem acceptable...
I've only been seeing her for 2 weeks and I'm afraid that she'll be like, 'wow what the hell, moving a little fast, *CRINGE MOMENT Standing at her door*'

It takes extreme balls to do that if I'm not officially with her... If we where genuinely going out I'd do it with ease...


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Default 12-14-2010, 01:48 PM

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Go for the obvious.

If you care about her, make her feel better.

Do whatever it takes to make her smile.

Make her soup... bring her something... a teddy bear... flowers...

Man up Pog.
I said do what YOU think is right.. go and see her whether or not she says shes sick and you shouldn't go around.

If you wanna make it serious.. then go and see her no matter what she says if you're that eager to see her.
  
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Default 12-14-2010, 01:52 PM

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^.^,
I'm only 'seeing' her though, here in the UK we're less confident as a nation than US...
In america you guys can walk up to someone you've winked at and ask them out, here it takes weeks of chatting for it to seem acceptable...
I've only been seeing her for 2 weeks and I'm afraid that she'll be like, 'wow what the hell, moving a little fast, *CRINGE MOMENT Standing at her door*'

It takes extreme balls to do that if I'm not officially with her... If we where genuinely going out I'd do it with ease...
If that's true. You'd get a lot of respect for it ehh? Just go for it maaaan.




  
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Default 12-14-2010, 01:55 PM

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I said do what YOU think is right.. go and see her whether or not she says shes sick and you shouldn't go around.

If you wanna make it serious.. then go and see her no matter what she says if you're that eager to see her.

Mmmm, I might go tomorrow as a surprise...

I'm kind of planning on asking her properly on thursday when I see her.
But obviously, if I do go tomorrow, I'll ask then because I'll already be shitting my pants :L



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If that's true. You'd get a lot of respect for it ehh? Just go for it maaaan.
Mmmm, that's a fair point , but working up the courage is harder than it seems


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Default 12-14-2010, 02:10 PM

Well, here you can't just wink at a girl and expect to be going out.

It takes a lot more than that.

Just talk to her, bring her something nice, ask her out already.

You'd better do it before it's too late



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Default 12-14-2010, 02:14 PM

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Well, here you can't just wink at a girl and expect to be going out.

It takes a lot more than that.

Just talk to her, bring her something nice, ask her out already.

You'd better do it before it's too late
Mmmmm... If I feel up to it tomorrow, I might... But thursday's only the day after tomorrow which is when I'm seeing her anyway... :/
My 'shyer' version of it would have been sing a long and label the description to be dedicated to her, (she has no idea I've made the videos on youtube)...


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Default 12-14-2010, 04:24 PM

Do what the first post said get her flowers or watever im british too and ill tell you what were braver than americans go get her damn flowers make her feel good what have u got to lose?What is shes gonna do? tell her friend oh he gave me flowers when i was feeling sick hes such a dick. And if anything ull get a nice little kiss, make her understand you care she'll catch on to the hint maybe you can take it on from there my advice is grow a sack girls find confidence sexy but make sure your not cocky that is a turn off.
  
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Default 12-14-2010, 05:03 PM

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Do what the first post said get her flowers or watever im british too and ill tell you what were braver than americans go get her damn flowers make her feel good what have u got to lose?What is shes gonna do? tell her friend oh he gave me flowers when i was feeling sick hes such a dick. And if anything ull get a nice little kiss, make her understand you care she'll catch on to the hint maybe you can take it on from there my advice is grow a sack girls find confidence sexy but make sure your not cocky that is a turn off.
your funny, i'm not going to start a flame war with your pathetic ass, and for you pog or george or whatever the fuck you go by, like i said before grow a pair... And i'm US if you haven't yet noticed, here we cant wink at a girl and then go ask her out and she say yes, but nor do we visit our girl with 'ease' if shes sick, i don't normally give people advice or in general talk to people without flaming them down, but i'm saying this as an american, stop being a pussy and go ask her ass out... no offense and if you do take this offensive i'm sorry (well not really, i don't give a fuck) but yeah i'm just trying to help... in a way... maybe not... i don't know >.> but its some good advice ^.^

---------- Post added at 05:03 PM ---------- Previous post was at 05:01 PM ----------

oh and one other thing, never ask a forum for help on relationships?? what in the hell are you thinking? that seems low... you don't know what to do with your girl so you ask a forum... smh kid you have a lot to learn in life.
  
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