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Default How to spice things up a bit? - 04-09-2011, 09:16 PM

K. So I'm not so good with spicing it up with a girl I've only dated for a week. Now, she wants to take it to "the next level". Now I know what your gunna say, "Bang her." But this could actually more then one thing. As far as I know she only wants to go as far as kissing. Any thoughts on wat the hell she means?

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Default 04-10-2011, 02:00 AM

Talk to her, definitely. Be clear about how you feel. Just make sure you take it one step at a time. Don't just blurt out "let's have sex" (i'm sure you wouldn't, that's an extreme example). But you need to be sure that you sort it out step by step starting from how you're wrestling now.

Tell her about how you're doing it dramatically different and ask her what's going on. Explain to her how you're feeling about it. Tell her that you're not mad or embarassed or thinking anything bad about her. Just make it clear that you still care about who she is as your friend as well as girlfriend, but that you are finding her attractive and complement her.

But, regardless of what happens, make it clear that you don't want anything to come between you and her. Yes, you may get close and face problems arising from being together in that way, but don't just give up and say it's not working. Life is full of problems, and giving up on any type of relationship you create for each other is never going to be a solution.

So, feel free to take it to the next level, but don't let life's problems (you will have them) tear you apart.

Hope that helped! Good Luck! You lucky dog!
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