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Unhappy How do I move on? - 08-08-2011, 07:42 PM

Well...

I have been in quite a few relationships where when we broke up I was
like ok bye like it was nothing.

This one Girl We broke up a week ago and I am dying we broke
up because she wasn't ready for a relationship after 3 weeks..

I feel on edge and everything I think about she pops up.
When I am doing something that has nothing to do with
her she pops up.

Currently after we talked about a hour ago I feel so hot
like im burning up and my heart is just beating fast with pain.

Idk what to say or explain anything but please how do I get over
my first young love..

I hate this feeling and I want to move on but when I start thinking
of moving on another part of me tells me I want to move on together
with her with me... Its pissing me off.

So please any advice... I can't take this pain anymore. I never
felt this with any other person I went out with but now its all
I feel. All day long.



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Default 08-08-2011, 07:45 PM

Have a drink.

Go somewhere away from people.

Stick in some headphones and listen to music/Maybe sleep if you can.

This usually helps me.

Hope it helps you.





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Default 08-08-2011, 07:46 PM

"Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts."

Ehh, I've been through what you're going through right now.

It will take a while, but you'll get over it.

At least its 3 weeks and not more.

The longer it is, the longer it would take you to get over it.

Good luck man.
  
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Default 08-08-2011, 07:50 PM

I've been through this once.

I turned to music and friends.
Best of luck to you man.



  
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Default 08-08-2011, 07:55 PM

Yeah The music aspect I have been doing. Only one song is helping me being
the song Space Bound by Eminem. All other songs are bleh even my favorite one is.
As for the friends part I live far away from any one of my friends.

Steven even though I am straight edge and a minor I wish I could get a drink.
Something I just want to get drunk and pass out. lol Best drink i can get would
be ice tea and water



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Default 08-08-2011, 08:11 PM

Just try to ignore her, date her friends, thats what I do

But the getting red faced and shit, yeah eventually that'll happen all the time.

I was never nervous about anything, and recently everything makes me nervous and my face always get red and shit

You just gotta ignore it and you'll be fine lol.
  
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Default 08-08-2011, 10:06 PM

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Well...

I have been in quite a few relationships where when we broke up I was
like ok bye like it was nothing.

This one Girl We broke up a week ago and I am dying we broke
up because she wasn't ready for a relationship after 3 weeks..

I feel on edge and everything I think about she pops up.
When I am doing something that has nothing to do with
her she pops up.

Currently after we talked about a hour ago I feel so hot
like im burning up and my heart is just beating fast with pain.

Idk what to say or explain anything but please how do I get over
my first young love..

I hate this feeling and I want to move on but when I start thinking
of moving on another part of me tells me I want to move on together
with her with me... Its pissing me off.

So please any advice... I can't take this pain anymore. I never
felt this with any other person I went out with but now its all
I feel. All day long.
I feel the same way; about the not wanting to move on, and just wait for her.

If you really love her, and you REALLY want her, don't move on. I'm not telling you to suffer through the things that have been happening. Accept the fact that you guys are over, and wish for the best.

Be there for her, even if you don't want to. Talk to her as much as possible. Feelings never go away, but they would simmer down. You never know, she might switch roles and try to get you back.

Don't be a douche bag, don't hate her, don't date other girls. Taking your mind off of her will help, think about other girls, but DON'T date them. ESPECIALLY her friends, which is why I quoted the guy below this. I'm still going through it, and I'd rather go through the pain and talk to her than move on and lose her forever.

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Default 08-08-2011, 10:17 PM

i was bitter about my breakup, 6 years and we split over her being stupid, so i "let the hate flow through you" and it got me over her, somewhat lol. i still care for her but right after the break up its what i did.

id say turn towards friends that comfort you, not the ones that are like fuck that bitch, she didnt deserve you. those are the worst kinds to be around lol. just look for comfort in the people you love. go out, talk to other people, get ur mind off her. if you guys talk, make sure you arent all emo and like oh i miss you, talk to her like a friend cause that might just run her off if ur all QQing with her. lol

dont do what i did. made me almost lose my kid hahaha.
  
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Default 08-09-2011, 07:04 AM

This is a good oppertunity for you to be somewhat selfish. Relationships are hard work and now that yours is over, you should treat yourself to whatever takes your fancy. Be that games, sports, or even other girls. There's no shame in dating her friends if you grow to like them, that's life.

Remember, if she has a problem with anything you do from now on, tell her that if she wanted to stop you, she should have stayed.




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Default 08-09-2011, 01:18 PM

just move on..




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