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Default Done. - 07-21-2014, 02:08 PM

As most of you may know, I've been extremely inactive with little to no reason offered as to why. I thought it's about time I'd let you know.

I may not have been in game, but I've been able to monitor how the community is functioning through a fairly distant, but easily observable position on the forums. Truth be told, I'm very disappointed.

I've watched certain members bitch, flame, and do everything humanly possible to annoy the living shit out of me. Let's be honest here, if you're not the member of some asshole clique, you either join it or you're annoyed by it. Notice how I'm not in any of these groups...

However, the most annoying and disturbing thing I've witnessed is the way players that truly are trying to help, are treated and put down. I suppose an example I should use would be L2 Switch. He may be a member of the asshole clique (see above paragraph) but he contains the brains and actual wanton to help that I don't think any other member parallels. He's put out work and effort into threads that contain ideas and updates that I believe would contribute greatly towards the server. However, every time someone puts out a suggestion that doesn't agree with the status quo of the server, it's shot down as bitching. Players are no longer allowed to voice opinions without having the fear that they'll be classified as "bitching children" and the reason for you not wanting to put effort into the server.

I'm a strong believer that the best type of advice/criticism is most likely not the type you want to hear. I understand you don't like your work being picked at and put down, but maybe take it as a hint that you need to adjust some things.

This thread is meant to be directed at the community as a whole and I would sure hope that no specific member takes offense from my words.

By all means, if anyone doesn't agree with what's said in this thread, let me know.; I'll gladly hear your opinion on it.


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Default 07-21-2014, 02:14 PM

i know im an asshole sometimes, and to certain people i feel bad for you if i dont like you cos you get the brunt of it, its an excuse to say im english but to the server i tried to put it aside to actually help.


you were one person who was mature but also funny af at times. respect


  
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Default 07-21-2014, 02:15 PM

"Specific member" - You've structured this nicely and it couldn't have been said better. There is no reason to take offense from this, it only voices the truth, however ignorance is bliss, is it not?



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Default 07-21-2014, 02:18 PM

I have to agree with your view on L2 Switch; I honestly think he's the only decent player (of that clique you're talking about) left who's trying to help out.

I know Brittany does not share this feeling with me and I'm kind of upset by that. I wish there'd be something I could do, but I wouldn't get in Brittany's way (Just mainly because I think showing support in someone's actions, this case Brittany's, is important to make her feel like she's doing a good job. Call it motivation. whether she needs it or not.). Not anything I can do anyways but suggest stuff and then see where it goes.

Though, this isn't all her fault of course. Sometimes I wish the clique would act like decent players, which they often don't. I don't blame Brittany for ignoring their advice for being such assholes sometimes. It's something that has to come from both sides.

I hope both parties will settle some day and benefit from each other, because I honestly can see the potential.

Thanks Brady for making the thread, I hope this will bring up some discussion which will benefit the whole server from.

Again, both parties, the clique and Brittany, shouldn't feel attacked, I'm just hoping to give a better insight on how I'm thinking about all this.




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Default 07-21-2014, 02:21 PM

It's pretty clear to whom this thread is ment.
However I party agree with you, there are diffrent ways to both sides.

The real problem here is the lack of respect. Nobody here still treats eachother with respect, so people get mad, they don't care anymore etc.

You know what I mean lol.


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Default 07-21-2014, 02:26 PM

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It's pretty clear to whom this thread is ment.
However I party agree with you, there are diffrent ways to both sides.

The real problem here is the lack of respect. Nobody here still treats eachother with respect, so people get mad, they don't care anymore etc.

You know what I mean lol.
Respect requires a two person effort.

Unfortunately, most people don't agree with that.


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Default 07-21-2014, 02:40 PM

Lol as if there was a slight of a chance for the server to get back to how it was. That's the truth.
Yeah Liam seems like a good lad, funny at times, and is capable of helping the server. Yet, due to some people considering him as an asshole, the community treats him like shit, and takes all his ideas/suggestions negatively.
That's why this server will never have a community, doubt it has one anyways.
Never the less, I'm sure Brittany, and Travis have another income source. For that, they're better off shutting the server, and going on with their life's. Especially when there is a kid that requires alot of responsibility.
This is not any of my business anyways. Doubt all of the shit I said will be taken into granted, or even read. Thus, #FreeGaza
I'm going out of topic, but ok. Just stating what's been on my mind lately.
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Default 07-21-2014, 02:46 PM

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Lol as if there was a slight of a chance for the server to get back to how it was. That's the truth.
Yeah Liam seems like a good lad, funny at times, and is capable of helping the server. Yet, due to some people considering him as an asshole, the community treats him like shit, and takes all his ideas/suggestions negatively.
That's why this server will never have a community, doubt it has one anyways.
Never the less, I'm sure Brittany, and Travis have another income source. For that, they're better off shutting the server, and going on with their life's. Especially when there is a kid that requires alot of responsibility.
This is not any of my business anyways. Doubt all of the shit I said will be taken into granted, or even read. Thus, #FreeGaza
I'm going out of topic, but ok. Just stating what's been on my mind lately.
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Unfortunately, opinions on someone can provide bias even when they're just trying to help.

Oh and yeah, #FreeGaza, it's fucked up what's going on currently.


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Default 07-21-2014, 02:51 PM

Can't release a half broken server and expect it to grow by itself. It's like ordering fries at Mc D's and receiving a raw potato.
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Default 07-21-2014, 03:29 PM

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Can't release a half broken server and expect it to grow by itself. It's like ordering fries at Mc D's and receiving a raw potato.
Sorry.
In the same sense it doesn't help when the people spit on the potato...

OT: We talked about this a little while ago with Welsh and I still agree.
I see people butting others down for being how they were in the past. It's sad.
I really can't see a way of solving it besides banning the ring leaders... which I can't see Brit doing after all this time.
But there's room for change so we'll see.

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